When it comes to Spiritual things, I find that many people think the craziest things. Sometimes it's people in a well established church, but mostly it's people out of the Church.
There is quite a movement these days of people starting home churches, trying to be like what they perceive the original church in the book of Acts was. While I can understand the reasoning behind moving away from the established churches, I believe there is a danger simply because you now have nobody to be accountable to, or even any formal training in the bible.
I mean let's face it, a majority of people who are christians hardly even read their bible, and really don't know all of what is in the bible. With a situation like that, all sorts of crazy ideas can sprout. And quite honestly, it only takes a spark to get a fire going, and before you know it, you have a cult.
Of course I came to Christ waaaayyyy back in 1973. Does anyone remember the "Children Of God" back in those days? Talk about a cult!
I don't know what the answer is for this dilemma. If you're in a church does not agree with the bible, then I think you should ask the Lord to show you what to do or for a different church. I don't think you should just drop out though, because that is not scriptural. Also if you join a home church, you should make sure the leaders are accountable to someone besides themselves.
But what is the problem with your church? Is it the canned praise for 1 hr, where they start you off singing fast upbeat songs, and slowly work their way to the slower "close to God in a personal way" type of songs (according to a pre-defined graphical curve designed to prime you for the short message where they slip in a few good word, and maybe quote the bible a few times, and then let you go home just in time for the ball game? Time to move then IMO.
Many folks walk in a church today, and feel insulted when they pass the offering plate/basket. It doesn't matter if they say ahead of time, "if you're new, don't feel obligated to put anything in the basket", people still get uncomfortable about money.
Some people feel there should just be a donation box in the back, and for that reason will leave a church. I've felt that way myself sometimes, but it didn't make me want to leave the church. In many of the churches now-a-days, the support comes from 10% of the members, but the other 90%, is giving very little, or not at all. Pastors are very reluctant to talk about money to the congregations, simply because they are afraid of offending people. But the fact is, a pastor is an extremely difficult job, and I would not easily dismiss a church just because you don't like the way a certain pastor does things. While I say that, I am also reminded of some of the weirder pastors I have had, and to be honest, it was because 1) He was teaching things that disagreed with scriptures 2) I wasn't able to get anything out of what he was teaching every Sunday, as if he wasn't filled with the spirit.
I had one really great pastor one time (who's gone to the Lord now), and during the week, things were happening in our lives, and then on Sunday, there the pastor was talking about that subject. I mean this went on for several months, that without fail, he was talking about what was happening in my life the previous week. I tell you that is a church you want to stay at and support IMO.