shadrach_ said:
What I dont understand here is mostly the fact that, you know the WMC is what doctrine is based from, disagree with much of it, and still WANT to stay at this Church. From anything I have been able to glean in my short time on this forum and other theological discussions, doctrine is the 1st ingredient needed for you to find a church.
Sorry about the delayed response.
I disagree about doctrine being the 1st ingredient. I believe worship and fellowship that brings glory to god should be the 1st ingredient or prerequisite. After that Biblical Teaching should be should. By biblical teaching I mean the sermons that you hear every week and the doctrine that a church might claim but never really preach on much.
A moderate example would be that the WMC states that some infants who die go to hell, and some go to heaven, at God's choosing. Once again without debating anything, but merely stating an example. But In all my years at the PCA church, no one has ever preached that.
shadrach_ said:
If there is any way you can feel stuck, then you most assuredly need to go somewhere else.
By "Stuck" I meant that I most assuredly can not see any other options as far as church goes. Maybe you misunderstood the word, I dunno.
shadrach_ said:
Would you stay in a friendship because you feel stuck, or because you care? Stuck is not beyond your control' as a matter of fact, IMHO, it makes the matter fully your responsability to rectify.
Actually I think just by definition the word stuck implies that it is beyond my control. I think you are assuming that I just don't want to look for a new church. Since we're on analogies. By Stuck I mean like how you get Stuck in Traffic, with cars all around you and no where to go. I think you are invisioning me just parking my car in the middle of the highway and refusing to go anywhere.
I probably won't get away with that, w/o elaborating. So Here we go. Starting at the church in 94'... when I got married in 01' we bought a house that is 40 minutes away. Also at the same time, my church ordained a new pastor. We figured it was a great time to look for a new church and try to get more involved.
We spent two years, going to every single church within 30 minutes of our house. And there is really not one church that met the qualifications I previously listed. But we did get a bunch of really funny stories. Anyway we Gave up looking for a new church and just started driving 40 minutes to our old church.
So by "STUCK" I mean there is not a better church within 40 minutes of our house. We do live a bit in the boon docks thought. We would like to move closer to civiliazation within a couple years, and That would open up more options.