Needing some outside advice please! My husband and I have been married for a year now and we get along great, except about my parents. We have rented the house I grew up in from them since we got married and they give us a good rent rate and we keep the house up and do repairs if needed. They live 4 hours away, so us being here helps them out as well, since my dad does not want to sell it and does not want it standing empty. The only problem is that my parents (and my 2 younger siblings) will give us a day or two notice they are coming to stay with us at least once a month now and this makes my husband super upset. He is a police officer and works a lot of night shifts and when they come, he is unable to get the rest he needs with all the noise in the house. My dad gives us a list of things that need to be done around the house, which makes my husband even more frustrated...my grandpa is also very ill now and lives close to me so they have decided that they are going to stay with us whenever my dad is not working on the weekend to spend more time with my grandpa. I haven't told my husband yet because I know he is going to be very upset and I'm not sure if I have the right to tell my parents this is a problem since we are renting their house. I would be fine with moving out, but I know our rent or mortgage would be more than we are paying now..that said, I'm definitely willing to deal with paying more somewhere else but my dad is happy for us to be here and maintain the house since they live so far off. I feel trapped between trying to keep them both happy and trying to keep them on good terms with each other but I can tell the relationship is crumbling. I want my husband and family to get along but my husband hates being dropped in on for days at a time and we can't tell them no..my family can tell he is frustrated and thinks he does not like them..it's a difficult position Has anyone else dealt with something like this??