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Normals are such an enigma!
We've all had Normals avoid us or persecute us because we are "strange" and "loners" according to their criteria. Well, what IS their criteria?
When a Normal gets into a conversation, they try to identify with the person they are talking with by creating a simulated persona of the person that they fill in from interaction and "put on." They try to empathize by 'becoming' the other person, so their subconscious can catch subliminal nuances about the person and 'fill in' the persona. When the persona is satisfactorily filled in, they say they "understand" the other person.
When a Normal gets into a conversation with an ASD and they try this trick with us, they eventually start feeling anxious and "turn off". The persona their subconscious comes up with is incongruent. There are "strange" parts between the "normal" parts of the persona. Their "intuition" (subconscious socializer) gets them away from this source of "crazy." They walk away and avoid you as well as they can. They consciously can't say why, because only their subconscious knows why.
A Normal is defenseless to manipulation in this area because they have never had to consciously think about what they are doing. Advertisers have made a study of how these normals think so they can be manipulated. That's why some successful advertising just doesn't touch us.
When a Normal says, "Everybody knows...." or "Nobody does...." what they mean is the blank persona they first apply to new people is pre-loaded with those characteristics. Unbeliever Normals assume everyone is also unbelievers. Christian Normals assume everyone is a potential Christian and feel bad about their sins. When 9/11 occurred, they had to readjust their model to include possible mass murderers. When the television and movies show violence and promiscuity, their model is adjusted to assume that of others. If they have been abused, their model will have characteristics of their abuser.
Normals can quickly and easily be disingenuous by switching to a persona that's good at that. We can't. We are who we are and any attempts to be dishonest comes across as contrived. That's why we stick with honesty. We "wear our feelings on our sleeve" because there is only one persona in here. Since God hates liars, they have a big temptation to overcome to be righteous.
Since they have this large number of persona, they tend to generalize and compromise. In a church, this means they aren't too concerned about Jesus' unconditional call to dedication. They are more apt to "go with the flow" -- holy or unholy. They have a large number of "old natures" to renounce.
From what I have read, it appears that Rev. John Wesley and his mother had Aspergers. He had unusual dedication. He had trouble with reading people and dealing with people. He was focussed and a genius in his field of Christianity, to the extent that he swayed Britain and America away from atheistic Humanism.
Unfortunately, his followers had kids who were Normal. These kids liked their culture, but cut corners on the dedication. As a result, there are numerous splinter denominations caused by the fight between the Aspergers and the Normals.
We've all had Normals avoid us or persecute us because we are "strange" and "loners" according to their criteria. Well, what IS their criteria?
When a Normal gets into a conversation, they try to identify with the person they are talking with by creating a simulated persona of the person that they fill in from interaction and "put on." They try to empathize by 'becoming' the other person, so their subconscious can catch subliminal nuances about the person and 'fill in' the persona. When the persona is satisfactorily filled in, they say they "understand" the other person.
When a Normal gets into a conversation with an ASD and they try this trick with us, they eventually start feeling anxious and "turn off". The persona their subconscious comes up with is incongruent. There are "strange" parts between the "normal" parts of the persona. Their "intuition" (subconscious socializer) gets them away from this source of "crazy." They walk away and avoid you as well as they can. They consciously can't say why, because only their subconscious knows why.
A Normal is defenseless to manipulation in this area because they have never had to consciously think about what they are doing. Advertisers have made a study of how these normals think so they can be manipulated. That's why some successful advertising just doesn't touch us.
When a Normal says, "Everybody knows...." or "Nobody does...." what they mean is the blank persona they first apply to new people is pre-loaded with those characteristics. Unbeliever Normals assume everyone is also unbelievers. Christian Normals assume everyone is a potential Christian and feel bad about their sins. When 9/11 occurred, they had to readjust their model to include possible mass murderers. When the television and movies show violence and promiscuity, their model is adjusted to assume that of others. If they have been abused, their model will have characteristics of their abuser.
Normals can quickly and easily be disingenuous by switching to a persona that's good at that. We can't. We are who we are and any attempts to be dishonest comes across as contrived. That's why we stick with honesty. We "wear our feelings on our sleeve" because there is only one persona in here. Since God hates liars, they have a big temptation to overcome to be righteous.
Since they have this large number of persona, they tend to generalize and compromise. In a church, this means they aren't too concerned about Jesus' unconditional call to dedication. They are more apt to "go with the flow" -- holy or unholy. They have a large number of "old natures" to renounce.
From what I have read, it appears that Rev. John Wesley and his mother had Aspergers. He had unusual dedication. He had trouble with reading people and dealing with people. He was focussed and a genius in his field of Christianity, to the extent that he swayed Britain and America away from atheistic Humanism.
Unfortunately, his followers had kids who were Normal. These kids liked their culture, but cut corners on the dedication. As a result, there are numerous splinter denominations caused by the fight between the Aspergers and the Normals.