Hi, can I stick my two cents worth in here?
In my humble opinion...I go by "taste" not "looks." My taste is that I like guys who are "cute." the baby-face kind. Not handsome or gorgeous...you can keep 'em. I like cute. and some of the cute guys I eye, are actually ugly to other people. I want to adore my guy in every way possible. Even in looks. for I NEED him to think I am pretty. So I need to honor him in the same way. I am not trying to look good with a cute guy on my arm...my admiration of his looks are for his ego!!!!!!!!!!
But looks is the same as any other category. My TASTE in personality is specific too. Some people like intelectual, professional men. SKIP THAT, give me goofy and silly. that is my personality taste. I dont' want to ''settle down" and get married, I want to get married and let the fun begin. Other's may be annoyed by the goofyness of that personality.
So to me yes, absolutely looks are important... and so is personality, and so is their relationship with God (number one in fact). But I think it's stupid to say, "Oh who cares how ugly they are, as long as they have a nice personality." Well as much as looks can fade, so can a personality. Something tragic can happen in life and that person can turn bitter and then they not only are ugly outside, but ugly inside too.
I want to like everything about my guy! Even his faults. Even his looks. for him as much as for me.