Before I came to Christ, my boyfriend (now fiance) and I would often times send each other sexual photos.
There was a time where he confessed to me he had been bragging and showed his best friend of photo of me topless.
I feel awful both because this man has seen me nude and I feel gross, and also because I don't understand why he would want some other man to lust after me and I feel as though he did not protect me.
Men ought to care how their wives dress. There are some who may say, "Well, I don't care how my wife dresses. If she wants to dress that way, that's fine." If you don't mind her showing her body, I guess that is your business. Personally, I don't want my wife showing off her body. If you don't care, well, I have a phone number of a pretty good divorce lawyer, and you are probably going to need him sooner or later, because I doubt if you love your wife. Sooner or later, it is going to end, if you don't care. Obviously, your affection is in the wrong place. If you really loved something, you would want to protect it. So if it is not something you want to protect, chances are you really don't love it.
I have read this from a christian site online and it made me feel bad and as though he does not love me enough to protect me.
Since then we have both come to Christ and I no longer send photos like that, but I am still hurting from this incident.
How can I experience healing and feel okay about our relationship?
There was a time where he confessed to me he had been bragging and showed his best friend of photo of me topless.
I feel awful both because this man has seen me nude and I feel gross, and also because I don't understand why he would want some other man to lust after me and I feel as though he did not protect me.
Men ought to care how their wives dress. There are some who may say, "Well, I don't care how my wife dresses. If she wants to dress that way, that's fine." If you don't mind her showing her body, I guess that is your business. Personally, I don't want my wife showing off her body. If you don't care, well, I have a phone number of a pretty good divorce lawyer, and you are probably going to need him sooner or later, because I doubt if you love your wife. Sooner or later, it is going to end, if you don't care. Obviously, your affection is in the wrong place. If you really loved something, you would want to protect it. So if it is not something you want to protect, chances are you really don't love it.
I have read this from a christian site online and it made me feel bad and as though he does not love me enough to protect me.
Since then we have both come to Christ and I no longer send photos like that, but I am still hurting from this incident.
How can I experience healing and feel okay about our relationship?