There is this one girl who keeps talking to me and if she doesn't stop I'm afraid I might end up spanning the globe to meet her, woo her and marry her. What would be the Christian way to do such a thing?
How do you date a girl from halfway around the world?
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Marycita
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OH myyyyy..how many girlfriends do you have and girls are you interested in?
Stop like, pursuing them all, like it seems you are through all these threads, figure out who you really have an interest in, and *then* pursue...things get ugly otherwise..
Stop like, pursuing them all, like it seems you are through all these threads, figure out who you really have an interest in, and *then* pursue...things get ugly otherwise..
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Most of them come to me. All of them come to me. I'm just getting to know people. Nothing serious is going on, despite what some of them might want. I think women are attracted to men who aren't easy. Or maybe the light in your eyes from the Holy Spirit residing in your soul attracts people who seek something real in their lives.
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You'll have to help me with this. Everyone is different and they all have special things about them that make them extraordinary people to be with. How can I be expected to choose one over all the others?
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Thunder Peel
You don't eat a peacock until it's cooked.
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Yeah.
When I was younger it was not like this at all. I actually gave up on women for awhile and focused on myself. Now things are changing since I felt like talking to women again and its different than it used to be.
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broken_one
Fear is but something to be overcome.
Keeping your options open I don't think is a bad thing. Multiple commitments....well, that's a bit wrong. 
As for me, if I was dating a girl from halfway around the world, I would do everything in my human and quasi-divine power (secret faith power) to make it work. Everything, in all its totality. Everything.
As for me, if I was dating a girl from halfway around the world, I would do everything in my human and quasi-divine power (secret faith power) to make it work. Everything, in all its totality. Everything.
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Daedalus^2
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Right - so where's your focus on God? Seriously dude - it's less about focussing on yourself, about finding yourself a hot women or any of that, it's about focusing on God and walking in His plans.
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Then the last thing you need to be doing, sir, is dating anyone...
as of right now, it seems as if you don't know what you want, but just *that* you want..
take time to be by yourself and with God and let Him let you know what you need to look for in a spouse...
after you do that, it won't be like choosing, because you'll just know what kind of girl you should pursue....
but please, for the love of all that's good and holy, do not be one of those guys who likes and pursues like, every girl..I've been on the receiving end of such and it's just....not pretty at all....
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My focus is on treating the other people correctly. Some of them are more attractive than others but none of them are what I would consider hot. These are broken people who are looking for attention, acceptance and love.
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My focus is on treating others right as in WWJD? If you want me to say something your church makes you parrot don't waste your time.
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Daedalus^2
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Okay, let me rephrase this - where does that focus fit within your personal relationship with God?
While faith without works is dead, works without faith is just work.
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Are you questioning my salvation? Or are you wondering why I don't pray instead of asking people who might have the answers I'm looking for?
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Did I scare you off Daedalus? If your question was about prayer you had a good point. When I pray I pray for God's will as Jesus instructed us. Then I accept God's will. If God wants me to have answers he will give them in his time or I can 'hoof it' and find them from people he has placed in my life.
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