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I'm just wondering how can you talk to someone who abused you. This is so hard to say...I have never told anyone this except my husband..and that took a long time to say.
So I will start at the beginning...when I was 5 or 6 I was abused by my neighbor. He didn't do anything to my body...but wanted me to do something to his. I can hardly stand to say it, it brings up such terrible memories *tears and shaking*.
I remember also my brother during that time to want to play dr. But to me is was like whatever. (Is that horrible?)
But as I grew up and became a teenager both of my brothers touched me. One just out of curiosity (which was once and never again and he apologized) The second (my oldest brother), as soon as my parents would leave us alone he would corner me, being stronger than me, and touch me. This continued until he left for college. I never told a soul...he was the quiet, 4.0 gpa, no one would ever believe he did anything wrong kind of guy, but he had a temper like you would never believe.
So here I am 30 years later....wondering if it ever bothered him, did he ever regret doing that to me, should I confront him or just let it go. Did he or does he do that to his daughter or did he ever tell his wife?
Any suggestions....? I can't even believe that I wrote this...I think I might be sick !
So I will start at the beginning...when I was 5 or 6 I was abused by my neighbor. He didn't do anything to my body...but wanted me to do something to his. I can hardly stand to say it, it brings up such terrible memories *tears and shaking*.
I remember also my brother during that time to want to play dr. But to me is was like whatever. (Is that horrible?)
But as I grew up and became a teenager both of my brothers touched me. One just out of curiosity (which was once and never again and he apologized) The second (my oldest brother), as soon as my parents would leave us alone he would corner me, being stronger than me, and touch me. This continued until he left for college. I never told a soul...he was the quiet, 4.0 gpa, no one would ever believe he did anything wrong kind of guy, but he had a temper like you would never believe.
So here I am 30 years later....wondering if it ever bothered him, did he ever regret doing that to me, should I confront him or just let it go. Did he or does he do that to his daughter or did he ever tell his wife?
Any suggestions....? I can't even believe that I wrote this...I think I might be sick !