There are some pretty intriguing commandments in the Bible. In total, there are a whopping 613. These commandments range from not eating worms found in fruit to burning cities that have engaged in idolatry worship. I'm still trying to understand how Christians decide which commandments can be tossed out of the window and which are still mandatory to follow.
For example, let's take these two:
1 Corinthians 14:34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says.
Leviticus 18:22 Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.
Can someone please explain to me the process Christians use to determine that the first commandment is no longer necessary but the second one still is? Thanks.
You pose a very good question, and one that I often consider myself. Before getting around to it, let me just say that there are many believers today who still adhere to the first commandment in your pair of examples. (I realize you're just giving examples.) Do you happen to have a list of all 613? We could go through them one-by-one and try to figure out whether each applies to today.
Absent that, there are a few criteria that help folks figure out if a given commandment is one that has expired. (And I may not have thought of them all.)
OT vs. NT: If it's in the NT, it's probably still valid. That's not to say that if it's only in the Old that it's invalid (e.g., the Ten Commandments), but if it's in the New then there's a good chance God still expects Christians to adhere to it under most conditions. One condition where a NT commandment *may* not be in play is if it's strictly a
cultural thing. (Many folks put 1 Cor. 14:34 in that category.) An example might be not to eat meat sacrificed to idols (1 Cor. 8). *Motive* is a big thing in the NT. And not taking *license* to do things if what you do could be misconstrued or harmful to another's faith.
OT System: If it's only in the OT, we should determine if it's part of the old "system" of Judaism, sacrifices, etc. An example might be the tithe. It's not a NT concept, and it seems (to me) to be part of the Judaic system with the festivals, offerings, etc. That system has been concluded, so I don't think the tithe is a valid commandment any more.
Is it part of the
created order: An example here might be 1 Tim. 2:12-13 (as well as Lev. 18:22). If something would violate the created order, then it's probably a commandment that should still be heeded. It's not part of the old system of the Law but has instead been in play since creation.
Personal vs. organizational: Is it a commandment that applied to an organization or to a person? For example, the nation of Israel was often commanded to attack other peoples in their attempted conquest of Canaan. It does not follow that we can be vigilantes ourselves.
Progressive revelation: There's little question that God has revealed Himself in stages throughout time. Was a commandment given that helped the Israelites learn about Him, or was it meant for all time? An example here might be where God commanded that you should not wear clothes that have mixed fabric (don't recall the verses off-hand, but I think they're in Leviticus somewhere). Imo, God was teaching the Israelites that they were a chosen people and God wanted them set apart from the other nations. The metaphor of mixed fabrics was then given to help illustrate the point.
There are probably still other factors that go into play that have a bearing on what God would have Christians do or not do these days, but I post these to get us started. I think the biggest thing these days is to behave in a God-honoring way. In a way that reflects who God is (since Christians are supposed to be conforming themselves to His image). If a believer has the proper motives (and not selfish ones), is wanting to honor God, is wanting to be more like Him, is not causing another person to stumble, etc., then I think God would be pleased with that behavior.