how do i deal with her ex husband

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first of all im not a christan
my wife is .im haveing a problem with how to deal with her ex .im her fouth husband she has five children .her last husband who has two children with.they are very close..maybe im just jelouse and i have to get over it.i just have to know if its just my issue .when we first got together he was and still is our main topic ..the first dealings i had was him at her house at christmas .i had to leave for work i was gone for a few days..she told me they took pitchers together exotic ones and they slept together(no sex)she said the pics were for me.i was upset.we never broke up.im by no means perfect and i tend to drink to much at times.but while i was liveing there it would seem i was asked to leave about the time he would be comeing to visit.still didnt break up we worked a few things out and ended up getting married.but hes back now stronger than ever.now im dealing with two hour phone conversations shes asking for him to be able to be here at christmas(my house)she wants him to buy her house so he can live closer to his kids when hes around they still get together.she says it for the kids but i really dont see that.i guess what i want to hear is i the one who should lighten up or do i have a right to be upset

 

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Welcome to CF.

I know you think you love her man, but she's still doin her Ex. GET OUT NOWWWWWWW!!!!!!

Seriously. Sometimes you have to give up and cut your losses.

C'mon, exotic pics together? Get real brother. See the light. Quit blinding yourself. I know I sound harsh but you obviously need something harsh to help you see the truth.

Good luck mate.

 

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Eek... sounds like a sensitive issue. Have you considered talking to a professional third party about this? It does seem like more than we're likely to be able to help you with.

Meanwhile, you're on a welcome forum and you're going to get a lot of random welcome posts unless you move your question to a more appropriate forum -- perhaps Marriage Ministry. Maybe someone there who has been through something similar can give you some useful advice.

Good luck.

 

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