Well, here's my story in a nutshell. I've been married just over two years. My husband is confused, not sure if he loves me the "right way", not sure if he will ever want kids (he knows I do) and thinks that we should separate or divorce. Especially since he doesn't know when he'll figure it out, he doesn't want to "drag me along" for the next 20 years or so. I still love him and I would do anything to fix this marriage. My husband takes full responsibility for what is going on and says that I didn't do anything wrong and so there's nothing I can do to fix it.
The thing is, I don't want to get divorced. I don't even want to live separately. I'm at the point where I would be happy to continue to live like roommates in the same house, just so long as I don't lose him completely. I don't know what to do. I'm not happy with the situation right now, but I still feel in my heart that we are supposed to be together. He does make me happy, even though my heart is breaking right now.
However, if he does ask for a separation or divorce, I don't have much choice, so I just need some advice.
If you are separated/divorced, how did you cope? How did you get through it or over it? How long did it take?
I just need to know that if the worst happens, I will be able to get through it. I need to know that someone out there has been through what I'm going through and that they survived.
Thanks...
The thing is, I don't want to get divorced. I don't even want to live separately. I'm at the point where I would be happy to continue to live like roommates in the same house, just so long as I don't lose him completely. I don't know what to do. I'm not happy with the situation right now, but I still feel in my heart that we are supposed to be together. He does make me happy, even though my heart is breaking right now.
However, if he does ask for a separation or divorce, I don't have much choice, so I just need some advice.
If you are separated/divorced, how did you cope? How did you get through it or over it? How long did it take?
I just need to know that if the worst happens, I will be able to get through it. I need to know that someone out there has been through what I'm going through and that they survived.
Thanks...