I'm assuming since you are in this section that you are not married.
What that phrase may well mean is that he is your partner, and that despite his error you should be forgiving and patient he tries to change his ways rather than complaining about him to others and browbeating him over his mistakes, however hurtful.
If you are unable to forgive your significant other for a particular transgression, then break it off. Don't sit there browbeating him. Piling more guilt onto him is not going to change him OR you.
Hey thanks for that Christianly love..
I did not "browbeat" him at all. I expressed my unhappiness for some things he had done (in a different post) and how it hurt me.
I am extremely forgiving of mistakes. I was married for 20 years to a man who abused inappropriate contentography for at least 10 years that I knew of. He was very addicted to it and well..lets just say he never wanted to have sex with me..
My hurt comes from NOT wanting that to be an issue in another relationship that has been long term.
I am well and over what had happened with my current parnter, however, it still stings the ego..(you'd have to read the other thread).
It's fairly offensive that you would assume that I had browbeaten him because I voiced my hurt and anger over a situation that occured.
People do make mistakes..but lets just assume you are one of those men who do look at inappropriate content all the time well then my post would be meaningless to you and you would assume I am bashing my parnter because after all, inappropriate content would be acceptable in your life and after all "your with your wife aren't you"? and that makes it all okay.
Now lets assume you are not into inappropriate content and are a man who feels he has to defend the entire male race from being browbeaten, well that would just mean that you, young man, are browbeaten in some fashion by your own wife and feel the need to defend man.
See this is the thing. I do NOT look at the male gender as a bunch of mindless jerks who's only goal is to have sex. But I do have realistic expectations of what I desire in a relationship with someone.
I realize that inappropriate content is a huge strong painfully sensetive area for me and won't condone it in my relationship.
And so If I vent about what is frustrating me and am trying to make sense of some things...I would hardly call that me browbeating my partner.