Lambslove, I hope you do check back at some point, just so that you can see my answers to your questions...
lambslove said:
I'm not married and my father died in January. I have no brothers. Who would be this male headship that you talked about??
I'm sincerely sorry to hear about your father.
I believe that head of you is essentially a male (spiritual) head who is a believer (since he is one who you will submit to the will of) so if you had no immediate males above you your head would be considered your pastor/minister - likewise, if you had a husband/father/brother who was an unbeliever it would be them also. Hope that answers your question.
lambslove said:
Perhaps it does somehow show faith in God to cover one's head, but perhaps one of the better ways to show faith is, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other." Is that somehow less important to show me kindness than to demand that I cover my head because my hair offends you?
I'm not sure of whether this question was directed at someone specific, but I wanted to just clear it up for you.
Personally, I believe that covering your head is no way more important than being kind, forgiving and loving each other by any means - Christ himself said that was the most important thing of all!!
I think that headcovering helps you to better those things. I know that for myself I am more more likely to be patient, quiet, kind, forgiving (not to mention more submissive) and just have a more Christ-like attitude when I am covering my head, and having spoken to others who cover also, they feel the same way.
I know that sounds kind of kooky
but wearing a headcovering, you are visually seperated from the world and therefore an outward example of a Christian and constantly aware of 'that thing on your head'. You take greater care with how you treat others. I guess it's the whole idea that the way you are dressed greatly affects the way you act. I would recommend that you maybe have a listen to some of the audio or read some of the essays that I previously posted and of course, pray pray pray, so that you get a better idea of where it falls into the greater picture.