Girls, a question for you!

[Touma]

Now, let's imagine the 'traditional' roles are reversed. Usually(not always. I know there are exceptions) a guy will ask you on a date, and have something planned. Let us assume for a moment this is reversed. Like in an alternate universe or something. Let us say you have asked me out onto a first date (go me!!!). I want to know what you'd plan, where you'd take me, what we'd do, etc.

The purpose behind this is 1) I am bored, and this sounds fun, 2) I think sometimes guys just assume all girls want dinner and a movie. This puts YOU in charge, and lets us know what you like to do.


=)

 

[white dove]

I have done that before in the really-real world. I take into account his interests and mine though (if I'm being selfless, I consider his more). I don't know you well enough to plan a date.

 

[Tink]

For a first date? Lunch. 'Cause I don't know where it's going or how much we're going to have fun.

 

[Touma]

I have done that before in the really-real world. I take into account his interests and mine though (if I'm being selfless, I consider his more). I don't know you well enough to plan a date.

Well, just any guy then. I want to see what you all have in mind.


And I didn't know if it was real common for girls to plan dates or not. Where I am from, it is very UNCOMMON. It makes the guy seem weak or something. I don't know, really.

 

[white dove]

Well, just any guy then. I want to see what you all have in mind.


And I didn't know if it was real common for girls to plan dates or not. Where I am from, it is very UNCOMMON. It makes the guy seem weak or something. I don't know, really.

I think a healthy blend of both people planning events or dates is ideal; at least, for me it is. I don't like to feel like I have to think everything out all the time, but I do definitely like having to share that task. It can be fun. But, I do agree on some note that a man who needs a woman to plan things all the time is probably weak-willed/spineless/lazy.


If the guy is a sports nut: basketball tickets, golf outing (gah, I'd have to love the guy.. immensely), football game, [insert sport here] tailgating/house party

If the guy is more intellectual: art gallery showing (yeyyyy!), political briefs/meetings

If he's a music freak: CONCERT!!/symphony, jazz afternoon, dance outing

If he's into nature: camping, afternoon/evening hike, day at the beach

If he's spontaneous: ROAD TRIP!!!

 

[SweetDee]

Since the roles are reversed I would you take you into the kitchen and have you make me a sandwich. Sounds like a good date to me. Easy on the mayo please.

 

[white dove]

Since the roles are reversed I would you take you into the kitchen and have you make me a sandwich. Sounds like a good date to me. Easy on the mayo please.

But the real question is: Would you want him to wear an apron and high heels?




Wait, no it's not. That's not even a question. Of course he would!

 

[SweetDee]

I would demand it actually. The apron must have frill though. I can not have it any other way.

 

[Touma]

But the real question is: Would you want him to wear an apron and high heels?




Wait, no it's not. That's not even a question. Of course he would!

I got this one covered:

 

[K9_Trainer]

I'm not sure I know you enough

But maybe to the local zoo or the museum. I love the museum, so many cool fossils xD Orrrr maybe hiking? Maybe a spur of the moment trip to the beach for lemonade?

 

[Obzocky]

Haha.
I would have to force them to go to the natural history museum. It has a tea room (food, drink, sorted), it has exhibits (something to look at, done), and if it goes horribly wrong the tube is relatively close by for a quick escape.
Perfect.

I have organised dates to the zoo. I'm just that cool.

 

[kdb890]

I see absolutely nothing wrong with doing this in real life.
If it were up to me, I'd wanna go to a zoo.
We could spend all day there, eat there, watch programs there, etc.
I've always wanted to go to the zoo on a date.

 

[SweetDee]

I got this one covered:

DAY=MADE!

 

[HazelWings]

Great pic!!!

I haven't asked anyone on a date before, but when I've helped plan dates I've always nixed the movies. I hate movies on a first date because on a first date you're supposed to get to know the guy, and in a theater there's no talking allowed. Lunch or dinner is good, someplace casual enough that you're comfortable but nice enough that you don't have to yell to each other to be heard. Plus, with a lunch date, you're less likely to encounter an awkward goodnight kiss

 

[Inkachu]

The whole idea of "gender reversal role" gives me the willies, sorry lol.

 

[SplendidTree]

I am really not too creative. I would say perhaps lunch or dinner and perhaps something fun like bowling or an arcade if you hit it off well. It is nice to talk and get to know one another, but it is awesome to have some fun doing something as well.

 

[Amber.ly]

First date would be dinner then Starbucks.

Any dates after that would be dinner, movie, Starbucks

With a random mixture of mini golf, paintball, roller skating, canoeing, walks downtown, comedy shows and arcades thrown in for grins and giggles.

The only thing I REFUSE to do is bowl. If a guy wanted to take me bowling, it would be a deal breaker. I hate bowling.

 

[Touma]

First date would be dinner then Starbucks.

Any dates after that would be dinner, movie, Starbucks

With a random mixture of mini golf, paintball, roller skating, canoeing, walks downtown, comedy shows and arcades thrown in for grins and giggles.

The only thing I REFUSE to do is bowl. If a guy wanted to take me bowling, it would be a deal breaker. I hate bowling.

I am mostly there with you about bowling. It can MAYBE be fun for like half a game, and then about the 5 frame of me sucking, I lose all interest. Grr. I hate thee, bowling.

 

[MehTeh]

I haven't asked anyone on a date before, but when I've helped plan dates I've always nixed the movies. I hate movies on a first date because on a first date you're supposed to get to know the guy, and in a theater there's no talking allowed. Lunch or dinner is good, someplace casual enough that you're comfortable but nice enough that you don't have to yell to each other to be heard. Plus, with a lunch date, you're less likely to encounter an awkward goodnight kiss

The only thing I REFUSE to do is bowl. If a guy wanted to take me bowling, it would be a deal breaker. I hate bowling.

Are you going to suggest alternatives to him if he suggests one of these? Or is it an instant write-off for daring to pick an innocuous activity that you don't like?

 

[Amber.ly]

Are you going to suggest alternatives to him if he suggests one of these? Or is it an instant write-off for daring to pick an innocuous activity that you don't like?

I would really have to be a... shrew.... if I wrote off a guy for suggesting bowling.

No, I would say to him that I don't care for it and could we do something else. And if he likes to bowl, I would be all for him doing a guys night out or join a league. As long as he didn't expect me participate, its all gravy.

But I have met guys who insist that if they love something, you should too. And that to me is obnoxious.