snowboarder4life

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she had sex before we met, there is nothing i can do, she loves me, i forgive her, i forgive the other dude, i love her and that's it!!!

Dont worry about the other dude, wish him well

this doesn't seem like an easy thing for me to do..... any suggestions how this could be accomplished??? frankly i would like to beat the crap out of this guy if i could....
 

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Dear Snowboarder4life


When another's sin comes to mind just say to yourself:

" LORD I WANT YOU TO HOLD ME RESPONABLE FOR EVERY SIN IN MY LIFE SO THAT I CAN NOT FORGIVE THIS PERSON "

Now if you say this and mean it you can carry the load of unforgiveness in your heart and never worry about it.


There is a very good chance you will meet up with him if he doesn't ask the LORD to forgive him.


The LORD will understand.
Then HE knows the prayer he gave to you means nothing to you.


BUT


Just in case that is not to your liking then it might be VERY EASY to forgive another.


REALLY THE CHOICE IS YOURS BUT JUST REMEMBER:




XEven though you can't see Him, GOD is there!O
( click on the X and move to the O ) ( then feel who is around you ) steven
 
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Jody7818

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this doesn't seem like an easy thing for me to do..... any suggestions how this could be accomplished??? frankly i would like to beat the crap out of this guy if i could....

I know what you mean. My girlfriend was in the same situation. I've dealt with the same thing you are going through. I used to think about this all the time, and it caused me to think badly of her ex. But I would stop myself and realize that I haven't forgiven him. Then I remembered Jesus talking about how we should forgive others. And if we don't forgive, how can God forgive us? (Matthew 6:14 & 15) I then realized that life is too short to be living it with not forgiving others.

I believe that forgiving others is a very important task of a Christian. If you do a keyword search for the word "forgive" in the New Testament, you will find alot of good reading to study about the importance of this subject. Good luck :)
 
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A story that will help you know how to forgive...

One day a while back, a man, his heart heavy with grief, was walking in the woods. As he thought about his life this day, he knew many things were not right. He thought about those who had lied about him back when he had a job.

His thoughts turned to those who had stolen his things and cheated him.

He remembered family that had passed on. His mind turned to the illness he had that no one could cure. His very soul was filled with anger, resentment and frustration.

Standing there this day, searching for answers he could not find, knowing all else had failed him, he knelt at the base of an old oak tree to seek the one he knew would always be there. And with tears in his eyes, he prayed:

"Lord- You have done wonderful things for me in this life. You have told me to do many things for you, and I happily obeyed. Today, you have told me to forgive. I am sad, Lord, because I cannot. I don't know how. It is not fair Lord. I d idn't deserve these wrongs that were done against me and I shouldn't have to forgive. As perfect as your way is Lord, this one thing I cannot do, for I don't know how to forgive. My anger is so deep Lord, I fear I may not hear you, but I pray that you teach me to do this one thing I cannot do - Teach me To Forgive."

As he knelt there in the quiet shade of that old oak tree, he felt something fall onto his shoulder. He opened his eyes. Out of the corner of one eye, he saw something red on his shirt.

He could not turn to see what it was because where the oak tree had been was a large square piece of wood in the ground. He raised his head and saw two feet held to the wood with a large spike through them.

He raised his head more, and tears came to his eyes as he saw Jesus hanging on a cross. He saw spikes in His hands, a gash in His side, a torn and battered body, deep thorns sunk into His head. Finally he saw the suffering and pain on His precious face. As their eyes met, the man's tears turned to sobbing, and Jesus began to speak.

"Have you ever told a lie?" He asked?
The man answered - "yes, Lord."

"Have you ever been given too much change and kept it?"
The man answered - " yes. Lord." And the man sobbed more and more.

"Have you ever taken something from work that wasn't yours?" Jesus asked?
And the man answered - "yes, Lord."

"Have you ever sworn, using my Father's name in vain? "
The man, crying now, answered - "yes, Lord."

As Jesus asked many more times, "Have you ever"? The man's crying became
uncontrollable, for he could only answer - "yes, Lord."

Then Jesus turned His head from one side to the other, and the man felt something fall on his other shoulder. He looked and saw that it was the blood of Jesus. When he looked back up, his eyes met those of Jesus, and there was a look of love the man had never seen or known before.

Jesus said, "I didn't deserve this either, but I forgive you."

It may be hard to see how you're going to get through something, but when you look back in life, you realize how true this statement is. Read the following first line slowly and let it sink in.

If God brings you to it - He will bring you through it.
Lord I love You and I need You, come into my heart, today. For without You I can do nothing.
 
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