Foreplay before Marriage!!

[Jkurtz]

I'm not sure if anyone else finds this sick and wrong (before marriage of course) But I believe Foreplay before marriage to be so hugely wrong that it just....... ewwww.

Sorry guys but you see. I was sleeping over at my friends - his girlfriend was there - house and he than decided that it be best if he, begin fingering and licking lower parts of her body. I was appauled and i told him the next day. "That's wrong _____!! It says so in the bible that any type of sex before marriage is wrong!" And he told me it wasn't. I promised him however that i'd keep it secret.

Is it wrong, because if it's not, keeping the secret will be a whole lot easier, and if it is wrong. I'm worried that he'll take it farther than foreplay.

 

[PastorFreud]

You are not your brother's keepers. But if you think foreplay is disgusting before marriage, how will you switch over to loving it after marriage. I am not sure that you can change your thinking about something that disgusts you so quickly and easily. Most Christians who abstain from sex before marriage think foreplay would be wonderful and they find it exciting, yet they hold back until they are married.

 

[Jkurtz]

No I don't necessarily think foreplay is disgusting as much as before marriage it is. They did many things that night and it disgusted me that at such a young age they did it all, they went all out and i was appauled.

 

[flicka]

Whats more appaling is this was done in front of you...whats up with that?

 

[artofwar]

he did this in front of you?

 

[Jkurtz]

Yeah. He thought me John and Garret were asleep. And it was dark so he thought. Hey let's get funky. Isn't this just a screwed world and he admitted during truth or dare that night that he doesn't want to wait for any kind of sex. At ALL!! When he said that I knew something was about to happen.

 

[The Bellman]

Yeah. He thought me John and Garret were asleep. And it was dark so he thought. Hey let's get funky. Isn't this just a screwed world and he admitted during truth or dare that night that he doesn't want to wait for any kind of sex. At ALL!! When he said that I knew something was about to happen.

A "screwed" world, when a young man wants to have sex? No, a natural world. That's how we are built.

 

[Jkurtz]

No it's a screwed world when a young man who says he believes in Christ, runs off and does it.

 

[The Bellman]

No it's a screwed world when a young man who says he believes in Christ, runs off and does it.

Oh, a screwed world when someone doesn't agree with you as to a particular religious belief (that premarital sex is wrong)?

 

[Mr.Pious]

I don't think it is wrong at all

No it's a screwed world when a young man who says he believes in Christ, runs off and does it.

You'll fin dhalf the kids who say they are christian do it out of peer pressure they dont really believe it.

 

[SarahAblaze06]

ok... a screwed world when everyone makes excuses for SIN. sorry, i know its frank but come on now. personal opinion doesnt apply against the words of the Bible. now if you are not a christian and dont claim to be one then i in a certain way sadly understand why u might do those things. but claiming to be something and making a God in your own image (juSt making up what would probably be OKAY.. instead of waht would be the holiest thing) is breaking a commandment.

 

[Mr.Pious]

If you read my 2nd comment you would understand how the young lad could claim that.

 

[SarahAblaze06]

riight i posted as u posted i guess it was a lil mishap. i can see that happening.. since america is in some sorts often considered a christian nation... but its sad that he doesn't really get what a christian is. alot of people have totally gotten a misinterpretation of them and thats prolly what is the #1 turn off in america towards christianity.

 

[Mr.Pious]

I think the people who have an understanding find christianity less apealing.

Most people are bothered by those passages of Scripture they do not understand, but the passages that bother me are those I do understand.
- Mark Twain

 

[challenger]

Jkurtz, why does it bother you what other people are doing? Sure its pretty gross that they decided to do it when you were in the room, but still not really your business, nuh?

 

[seebs]

I think once the genitals are involved that trying to distinguish between foreplay and sex is sorta silly.

 

[The Bellman]

ok... a screwed world when everyone makes excuses for SIN. sorry, i know its frank but come on now. personal opinion doesnt apply against the words of the Bible. now if you are not a christian and dont claim to be one then i in a certain way sadly understand why u might do those things. but claiming to be something and making a God in your own image (juSt making up what would probably be OKAY.. instead of waht would be the holiest thing) is breaking a commandment.

riight i posted as u posted i guess it was a lil mishap. i can see that happening.. since america is in some sorts often considered a christian nation... but its sad that he doesn't really get what a christian is. alot of people have totally gotten a misinterpretation of them and thats prolly what is the #1 turn off in america towards christianity.

I believe you need to understand that for thousands of years, Christians all over the world have differed as to what God wants for them. The bible is far from clear on many, many issues, which is why there are so many christian sects. You need to realise that a person can disagree with you on scriptural interpretation - and thus think that something is not a sin, when you think it is - while still being a christian.

Or, as somebody or other once said, judge not, lest you be judged.

 

[RevKidd]

Or, as somebody or other once said, judge not, lest you be judged.

I am so sick of this statement being so horribly used in the wrong ways...

People asked Christ, how will we know them? He said "You will know them by their fruits". If I see your fruit that you are producing and it is rotten and stinks and therefore I make a mental decision as to your spiritual state, I just made a JUDGEMENT. Christ said to pull the plank out of our own eye, THEN we will see clearly to remove the speck from our brother's eye....

Foreplay before marriage is wrong. And please tell me how it wouldn't be...?

 

[Jkurtz]

Okay guys, not trying to argue here. Just asking a question? Is it or is it not a sin? I think it is,any other views? Just yes or no, and a back up statement. And Challenger,I care what my friends are doing, or what may affect society later on.

 

[Jkurtz]

Or, as somebody or other once said, judge not, lest you be judged.

Don't screw with statements of the bible unless you're willing to look at them and apply them. Reading the bible so you can quip it later on is pointless.