Hi everyone...well this one goes just for the girls
last weekend I went out with great friend of mine. She is my best friend. Well, last weeked we were talking about our relationships when we started talking about sex. She is a non christian. I told her that I have decided to wait to have sex with my girlfriend after marriage. Not only because it the way God wants but, it is something that you should do with your true love (and that means that your true love is your wife, or it is going to be). Then, she told me that she thinks it is normal to have sex with someone you love, but I told her how come you love more than one person (she has already had sex with her past boyfriends). But she said again that it is normal. Moreover, she said that if she had a boyfriend that doesnt want to have sex with her she would think this guy doesnt like her.
A week later I was talking to my friends girlfriend (that is another friend and I just met his girl friend) and she told me about this guy she thinks he is gay. That is just because he doesnt want to have sex with a single girl (he is also single). Just to have a good time.the girl who told me that is also a non christian.
These two stories, one from my best friend and the other from my friends girlfriend, made me feel weird. One both conversations I was afraid to defend my point of view because I was afraid of what people might think about me. Well, I told my best friend because I trust her, but even though I felt weird. A bunch of different thoughts have passed through my mind about it. To make things worse my girlfriend thinks that is normal ato have sex with someone you like (she is a christian). And she said that it is OK to not have sex with me because she respects me. That drives me crazy because she disnt see the brig picture. The Gods way. Suddenly I realize that I am in danger of extinction. I dont like the idea of going to church, pray, wash your sins out and later, go home, and have sex with you girlfriend or boyfriend. I realize there are a lot of people who say they are christian but they do exactly like that. I have a friend like that He goes to the church, pray and everything but he loves have sex with her girlfriend.
Well that made me feel said that I am wasting my time..something..like that I try to be strong, have faith..but sometimes(actually most of time) it is hard..even my girlfriend .I dont know what to think..what to do I dont know anybody to talk to I am alone( really alone ) in this one Have you ever felt like that? What did you do?How about my grilfriend Help good advices and experiences are very welcome..God bless
A week later I was talking to my friends girlfriend (that is another friend and I just met his girl friend) and she told me about this guy she thinks he is gay. That is just because he doesnt want to have sex with a single girl (he is also single). Just to have a good time.the girl who told me that is also a non christian.
These two stories, one from my best friend and the other from my friends girlfriend, made me feel weird. One both conversations I was afraid to defend my point of view because I was afraid of what people might think about me. Well, I told my best friend because I trust her, but even though I felt weird. A bunch of different thoughts have passed through my mind about it. To make things worse my girlfriend thinks that is normal ato have sex with someone you like (she is a christian). And she said that it is OK to not have sex with me because she respects me. That drives me crazy because she disnt see the brig picture. The Gods way. Suddenly I realize that I am in danger of extinction. I dont like the idea of going to church, pray, wash your sins out and later, go home, and have sex with you girlfriend or boyfriend. I realize there are a lot of people who say they are christian but they do exactly like that. I have a friend like that He goes to the church, pray and everything but he loves have sex with her girlfriend.
Well that made me feel said that I am wasting my time..something..like that I try to be strong, have faith..but sometimes(actually most of time) it is hard..even my girlfriend .I dont know what to think..what to do I dont know anybody to talk to I am alone( really alone ) in this one Have you ever felt like that? What did you do?How about my grilfriend Help good advices and experiences are very welcome..God bless