Focus on being good to each other (Mary & Martha)

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"As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. 39 She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. 40 But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”

41 “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, 42 but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” --Luke 10

"Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. 2 (This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.) 3 So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”

4 When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” 5 Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. 6 So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days, 7 and then he said to his disciples, “Let us go back to Judea.”

8 “But Rabbi,” they said, “a short while ago the Jews there tried to stone you, and yet you are going back?”

9 Jesus answered, “Are there not twelve hours of daylight? Anyone who walks in the daytime will not stumble, for they see by this world’s light. 10 It is when a person walks at night that they stumble, for they have no light.”

11 After he had said this, he went on to tell them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up.”

12 His disciples replied, “Lord, if he sleeps, he will get better.” 13 Jesus had been speaking of his death, but his disciples thought he meant natural sleep.

14 So then he told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead, 15 and for your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”

16 Then Thomas (also known as Didymus) said to the rest of the disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”

17 On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. 18 Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem, 19 and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother. 20 When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed at home.

21 “Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”

23 Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”

24 Martha answered, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”

25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; 26 and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?”

27 “Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, who is to come into the world.”

28 After she had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary aside. “The Teacher is here,” she said, “and is asking for you.” 29 When Mary heard this, she got up quickly and went to him. 30 Now Jesus had not yet entered the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him. 31 When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house, comforting her, noticed how quickly she got up and went out, they followed her, supposing she was going to the tomb to mourn there.

32 When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”

33 When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34 “Where have you laid him?” he asked.

“Come and see, Lord,” they replied.

35 Jesus wept.

36 Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!”

37 But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?”
38 Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. 39 “Take away the stone,” he said.

“But, Lord,” said Martha, the sister of the dead man, “by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days.”

40 Then Jesus said, “Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?”

41 So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.”

43 When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” 44 The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face.

Jesus said to them, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”
45 Therefore many of the Jews who had come to visit Mary, and had seen what Jesus did, believed in him. 46 But some of them went to the Pharisees and told them what Jesus had done. 47 Then the chief priests and the Pharisees called a meeting of the Sanhedrin.

“What are we accomplishing?” they asked. “Here is this man performing many signs. 48 If we let him go on like this, everyone will believe in him, and then the Romans will come and take away both our temple and our nation.”

49 Then one of them, named Caiaphas, who was high priest that year, spoke up, “You know nothing at all! 50 You do not realize that it is better for you that one man die for the people than that the whole nation perish.”

51 He did not say this on his own, but as high priest that year he prophesied that Jesus would die for the Jewish nation, 52 and not only for that nation but also for the scattered children of God, to bring them together and make them one. 53 So from that day on they plotted to take his life.

54 Therefore Jesus no longer moved about publicly among the people of Judea. Instead he withdrew to a region near the wilderness, to a village called Ephraim, where he stayed with his disciples.

55 When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, many went up from the country to Jerusalem for their ceremonial cleansing before the Passover. 56 They kept looking for Jesus, and as they stood in the temple courts they asked one another, “What do you think? Isn’t he coming to the festival at all?” 57 But the chief priests and the Pharisees had given orders that anyone who found out where Jesus was should report it so that they might arrest him.


12 Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. 2 Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with him. 3 Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.

4 But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, 5 “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages.” 6 He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it.

7 “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of my burial. 8 You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have me.”

9 Meanwhile a large crowd of Jews found out that Jesus was there and came, not only because of him but also to see Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. 10 So the chief priests made plans to kill Lazarus as well, 11 for on account of him many of the Jews were going over to Jesus and believing in him." --John 11 & 12
Beautiful, are they not? A very abbreviated, easier to quote passage from Luke, with a much more detailed passage from John, telling the same story in different ways. Martha is worried about the preparations for a guest; Judas & the Apostles are worried about the money (for different reasons); the Jewish leaders are worried about their nation; the crowds are worried about the mourning of a beloved friend, brother, neighbor. All good things! Tending to all of these has its place! But remember...at the end of the day, only one is important.

Appreciate each other. Be very good to each other. Love as you want to be loved, treat as you want to be treated...Lord, teach me not to desire so much to be consoled as to console, to be understood as to understand, to be loved as to love. Teach me to give and not count the cost. This is the heart of the Gospel, the Bible, any worthwhile religion, and it is beautifully played out here. Stories are wonderful like that; abstract ideas are played out in a visible manner. Odd proverbs make more sense. Teaching can be understood in brief sentences, but how to live them out requires watching others who do it better than us.

Read the stories again...what, like a little extra of your God-given time being spent on Scripture can be a bad thing? Christians, we need to work on our attention spans. No more proof-texts for me; let's do whole passages & get past our impatience to reach the heart of God.



Only one thing is important...that's because only one thing will last. Proper handling of money, national security, medicine, mourning, all these have their place, and many a saint has been made by handling these matters in a wonderfully Godly way. But can't we just learn the fundamental truth of life, that it's not worth living if we live it for ourselves?
“I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain.”
—John 15:16
We have received the faith to give it to others. We are priests meant to serve
others. And we must bring a fruit that will remain. All people want to leave a
mark which lasts. But what remains? Money does not. Buildings do not, nor
books. After a certain amount of time, whether long or short, all these things
disappear. The only thing which remains forever is the human soul, the
human person created by God for eternity. The fruit which remains then is
that which we have sowed in human souls: love, knowledge, a gesture capable
of touching the heart, words which open the soul to joy in the Lord. Let us
then go to the Lord and pray to Him, so that He may help us bear fruit which
remains.
Only in this way will the earth be changed from a valley of tears to a garden
of God.
—Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger,
from his homily at the Mass for
the Election of the Roman Pontiff,
April 18, 2005


Tuesdays with Morrie (Mitch Albom); Illusions (Richard Bach); any spiritual person, anyone who honestly analyzes the world in a way that seeks to find peace & goodness & beauty & joy, will say the same thing in different ways. "Anyone who loves is born of God", says 1 John 4:7. I don't know how to conclude this, so I'll encourage you to take a few minutes of silent prayer (at least 3), to let God wrap it up better than anything I could write; I'm using His words, after all! So here's a few poems that I think are related; the first I found in Matthew Kelley's wonderful book, Rediscover Catholicism; the other is one that I wrote one night, in about a minute, after coming to the wonderfully stark realization that "selfishness is stupid". I really understood that everything I do for myself dies, but what I do for others lasts forever; this poem was when I was trying to find a way to explain it, and the words flowed. Use it as you wish, I'll take it as an honor!

Good night & God bless us all!​

'Twas battered and scarred, and the auctioneer
Thought it was scarcely worth his while
To waste much time on the old violin,
But held it up with a smile.
"What am I bidden, good folks," he cried,
"Who'll start the bidding for me?"
"A dollar, a dollar," then two! Only two?
"Two dollars, and who'll make it three?"
"Three dollars once, three dollars twice;
Going for three..." But no,
From the room, far back, a grey haired man
Came forward, and picked up the bow;
Then wiping the dust from the old violin,
And tightening the loose strings,
He played a melody pure and sweet
As a caroling angel sings.

The music ceased, and the auctioneer,
With a voice that was quiet and low,
Said, "What am I bid for the old violin?"
And held it up with the bow.
"A thousand dollars, and who'll make it two?
Two thousand! And who'll make it three?
Three thousand once, three thousand twice,
And going and gone," said he.
The people cheered, but some of them cried,
"We do not quite understand.
What changed its worth?" Swift came the reply:
"The touch of the master's hand."

And many a man with life out of tune,
And battered and scarred with sin,
Is auctioned cheap to the thoughtless crowd
Much like the old violin.
A "mess of potage," a glass of wine;
A game--and he travels on.
He is "going" once, and "going" twice,
He's "going" and almost "gone".
But the Master comes, and the foolish crowd
Never can quite understand
The worth of a soul and the change that's wrought
By the touch of the Master's hand.



When you're all dead and gone,
What's left to carry on?
What reputation have you left?
Love and hope, or pride and theft?
Virtue holds a great reward;
Selfish pleasures leave you bored.
Starved of life, you seek for joy,
Serving yourself, you stupid boy!
Integrity is man's best friend,
Honor holds true through the end.
Selfishness is wasted life,
And only causes hate and strife.
Heroes are selfless and true--
The question is,
What are you?
 
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