Do you support couples eloping, to get married?
I would not "support" a couple to elope. Though I do not see anything
wrong with it I do see more right with the process of marriage.
I believe
good bible-based pre-marital counselling is a MUST. This helps you seek the Lord in your decision to marry. It helps you set the foundation of your marriage on Him. It also helps you address marital issues before you actually start having them...giving you a better foundation on which to handle them properly according to the Word.
Preparation for the wedding (big or small) helps you with the preparation for the marriage. You can learn a lot about each other in the way you work as a team to plan the wedding.
The wedding itself is a public statement of not only your love for each other but also your love for God. Vows taken before God in the presence of friends and family..."We love each other. We love God and we vow to live our lives together according to His good will and purpose for His glory." Powerful proclamation!
Our wedding was very small, in our living room with only my husband's family as my family is no longer living. Not only were our vows to each other precious but I was thankful for his families witness to our vows that God is the foundation of our union.
Even the invitations to the small reception announced not only our commitment to each other but also our committing our marriage to God.
The Pastor mentioned how much he loves wedding ceremonies because he has the opportunity to share God's word with people who may not otherwise hear it.
Marriage is a sacred and holy union. Not to be entered into lightly on the spur of the moment. I feel there is a blessing in sharing your vows with your friends and family as witness..be it a few or many.
Marriage is heavily under attack (as mentioned in other threads) The divorce rate for believers is right up there with the unsaved.
Believer's going into marriage MUST understand divorce is not an option so any preparation that gives your marriage a stronger foundation on the Lord is time well spent to me.
I'm not saying if you elope your marriage is doomed. I'm saying I do support the preparation, sharing your vows and committing your marriage to God before witnesses is beneficial.
God bless