If I'm making your life difficult I apologize. That is not my intent. May I point out that you are entering this forum and choosing to participate, just like myself. At any time you can walk away and never hear my words again. The choice is yours how difficult your life is.
I don't mean that your words in this forum make my life difficult, we are, as you point out, both totally voluntary participants who can walk away at any time. I mean my ACTUAL life, as in my day to day, you know... life. You, by implication, and people like you, are making my real world, actual life difficult, and through no choice of my own, believe me.
God condemns homosexuality as a sin. A sin no worse than any other sin, because sin is sin. It's not that God is condemning the homosexual community. It is that God condemns sin, of which homosexuality happens to be one, by his decree. So God condemns sinners, and not merely the homosexual community. If you don't like that, I seriously suggest you earnestly seek God in prayer about it; ask him to enlighten you through the Holy Spirit. Go at it with an attitude of pleasing Him, and not seeking ways to justify what you want.
Let me try, once again, to explain why I don't believe God condemns homosexuality...
STOP! No, don't quote the same old tired Bible verses at me again, and actually listen to what I have to say...
When "God" tells us something is sin, it is because the sin is harmful to non consenting third parties. Every single time, with one exception... homosexuality.
I DON'T believe that God makes up arbitrary rules for us to follow... I believe that sin occurs when we harm others without their consent, whether our actual act is listed as a sin or not, and further, if an act is listed as a sin but DOESN'T harm anyone... then it isn't ACTUALLY a sin.
Homosexuality doesn't harm anyone thus its not a sin.
Now why, I hear you ask, was it ever written down as a sin? Well, lets look at that, where is homosexuality possibly condemned? Leviticus. Same book that condemns eating shellfish and pork, and has unusually strict rules about dealing with mouldy curtains. Now think about the context in which it was written, in a pre-refrigeration, semi nomadic desert culture, not eating pork is a SURVIVAL ISSUE, because its easy to catch a harmful disease from inadequately cured pork. Homosexuality to, can be seen as a survivla issue, because be fruitful and multiply isn't a nice blessing, its a survival imperative. But we don't live in that sort of society any more, and for the same reason that its now OK to eat pork (its not going to harm anyone) its also OK to allow homosexuals into a society (i.e. they are not a threat to that society's ongoing existance)
Make sense?
Unless you can explain to me specifically why God would have a problem with homosexuality, I don't buy that its a sin. And no, "The Bible SEZ!" does not constitute a reason why God would have a problem with it.