I was very surprised to find today that my Catholic mother and grandmother are both very unhappy with Pope Francis, who they say is destroying the role of the Pope by calling himself "this Bishop of Rome" instead of "Pope" and for washing the feet of prison inmates instead of priests.
I really didn't know what to make of it. Everyone I know who isn't Catholic (including myself) think that PF is the bomb. Are people freaking out over this?
What would be your opinion of your bishop or Patriarch if he eschewed traditional vesture and titles and innovated with the liturgy (it wasn't the prison inmates which was problematic, but the two women)? Would they even dare to do so? If not, why not? Also, isn't this some of the kind of stuff that drove you to Orthodoxy in the first place?
Anyway, I think most Catholics love him because we love every Pope like we love a father. A new papacy is always a joyous time, as it is one sign of the continuation of the Church of Christ. I think being able to appreciate the good intentions behind some of the more controversial actions is also key to this attitude.
That being said, his eschewing of these traditions also have dissidents in a joyous frenzy and some of the more traditional-minded in a state of uneasiness because it makes them think he will eschew those that are more fundamental.
Personally, I don't think that will be the case and I do think taking his role as bishop of the diocese of Rome seriously and being out amongst the Romans is great.
As far as his choices with regards to living quarters and chairs and vesture which have also upset some people, it undoubtedly comes from a sincere desire to be ascetic, but as St. Bernard advised against to his fellow Cistercian Bl. Eugene III in De Consideratione (the "handbook of the Popes"), immediately and unilaterally changing things like this "will be like a person who abandons the footsteps of his ancestors, and will be seen as an affront to them. You will be censured with the common saying, 'Everyone wonders about a person who behaves differently.' It will seem that you only want attention." It's therefore not surpising that he has upset some well-meaning devout folks. Of course, as I mentioned before, the people who don't like his "ancestors" are ecstatic as a result.
Of course, in this day and age, it can be argued the Pope has to compete with a sensory overload in the world and needs to draw attention to himself to give the teachings of Christ their due place in the world. I think a lot of people feel the holier way is to take that described by St. Francis de Sales below*** (which is about food, but could be extended to lodgings, etc.), and I would agree in most cases, but in this day and age the Pope maybe should be more "conspicuous" with his good deeds and mortifications. But again, there's a reason even well-meaning and devout people like you mother and grandmother might be upset by it.
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***St. Francis de Sales, Into. to the Devout Life: "It seems to me that we ought to have in great reverence that which our Saviour and Redeemer Jesus Christ said to His disciples, 'Eat such things as are set before you.' To my mind there is more virtue in eating whatever is offered you just as it comes, whether you like it or not, than in always choosing what is worst; for although the latter course may seem more ascetic, the former involves greater submission of will, because by it you give up not merely your taste, but your choice; and it is no slight austerity to hold up one's likings in one's hand, and subject them to all manner of accidents. Furthermore, this kind of mortification makes no show, inconveniences no one, and is admirably adapted to social life. To be always discarding one dish for another, examining everything, suspicious as to everything, making a fuss over every morsel--all this to my mind is contemptible, and implies too much thought of meats and platters."