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Looks often have a deeper psychological meaning behind them, such that having physical requirements is not as shallow as most assume.
For me looks certainly matter. If I do not find her attractive there is zero chance I'll ever be able to be romantic with her. She does not have to have perfect bone structure or anything, but she must hit a proper feminine target.
Just as women tend to highly value height, men highly value youthfulness. As someone who is hitting the age of 30 I tend to find most women around my age unappealing. Even if they have pleasing aesthetics its not the same. While women several years younger than me emit a more feminine attraction. As I said before looks have psychological underpinnings to them. Just as women report to finding taller men more attractive because it makes them feel more feminine and protected, men find younger women more attractive because they feel more masculine because they have a greater sense of being protective of her.
As a short man, I'm not going to be too sympathetic about forgoing my own attractions. Studies show shorter men marry later, but to younger women. That is certainly the case with the short men in my family. A several year age gap is the minimum from studying my family tree.
For me looks certainly matter. If I do not find her attractive there is zero chance I'll ever be able to be romantic with her. She does not have to have perfect bone structure or anything, but she must hit a proper feminine target.
Just as women tend to highly value height, men highly value youthfulness. As someone who is hitting the age of 30 I tend to find most women around my age unappealing. Even if they have pleasing aesthetics its not the same. While women several years younger than me emit a more feminine attraction. As I said before looks have psychological underpinnings to them. Just as women report to finding taller men more attractive because it makes them feel more feminine and protected, men find younger women more attractive because they feel more masculine because they have a greater sense of being protective of her.
As a short man, I'm not going to be too sympathetic about forgoing my own attractions. Studies show shorter men marry later, but to younger women. That is certainly the case with the short men in my family. A several year age gap is the minimum from studying my family tree.
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