So a real christian woman will love a emotionally vulnerable honest man that is not playing games ?
Well, you don't want to put on a fake show. But we need to test our emotions and feelings, and stay only with the right ones >
"Test all things; hold fast what is good." (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32)
"swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath" (in James 1:19)
So, God's word says there are emotional things to put away > not suppress and hide them, and do not vent and express them, but with God get rid of them. And get into the feelings and thinking and emotions and desires which are in God's calm and kind and creative loving.
So . . . about showing romantic interest . . .
"not in passion of lust" > in 1 Thessalonians 4:5.
Be strong so you are able to take no for an answer and do what is good.
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
Do not try to Lord yourself over anyone, for what you want > no arguing, no complaining > always God has better for us, as we grow. So, stay humble, ready to take no for an answer . . . so we can find what is better than what we might have wanted.
So, if you're going to be vulnerable, I think God means for you to manage what is worthy and right to express, and put away what isn't!!
And grow in God's love so we discover how our emotions and feelings develop . . . in God's gentle and kind and quiet love.
"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
And minister this to our Christian sisters, to help them grow in being kind and wise.
See how you connect in gentleness and quietness >
"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
And yes we do need our "longsuffering", because any of us can still be wrong and misled, somehow.