How do you keep on loving someone when it's hard.
I thought this would make a useful discussion
I have all to learn here btw..
But I believe this is something that Christ would have us do...after all, He does this...
For example...how do you not stop loving someone if they've hurt you, and forgive them right away? Or if not right away (God knows we are weak..) at least soon, before we fall into anger and resentment? hmm.. I know that we should remember how God has loved us...well I guess the trick is always remembering that. Once we feel hurt...we tend to forget all else...at least I do, dunno about you.. it's really something we have to use our free will for. In my life...this is a rather trivial example...but sometimes (not on these forums but in everyday conversations) I say something that really means a lot to me, but get laughed at. (not like I've said a joke, but like I said something real dumb). This is hard for me to deal with, and I tend to either say something back, or just walk away. I'm trying to figure out how God would have me react.... or how do you love a person who has betrayed you, or done something really bad against you? I guess forgiveness is the starting point here.
Sometimes it's a real effort to control emotions
and of course we need God to help us here...to give us strength...
and we need His love in us, poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit...
I thought this would make a useful discussion
I have all to learn here btw..
But I believe this is something that Christ would have us do...after all, He does this...
For example...how do you not stop loving someone if they've hurt you, and forgive them right away? Or if not right away (God knows we are weak..) at least soon, before we fall into anger and resentment? hmm.. I know that we should remember how God has loved us...well I guess the trick is always remembering that. Once we feel hurt...we tend to forget all else...at least I do, dunno about you.. it's really something we have to use our free will for. In my life...this is a rather trivial example...but sometimes (not on these forums but in everyday conversations) I say something that really means a lot to me, but get laughed at. (not like I've said a joke, but like I said something real dumb). This is hard for me to deal with, and I tend to either say something back, or just walk away. I'm trying to figure out how God would have me react.... or how do you love a person who has betrayed you, or done something really bad against you? I guess forgiveness is the starting point here.
Sometimes it's a real effort to control emotions
and of course we need God to help us here...to give us strength...
and we need His love in us, poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit...