Anyone else have a husband with BPD? It seems to be mostly women, so it is hard to find any information/experiences concerning men. My husband frequently verbally abuses me (he will intentionally say the things that he knows will destroy me the most), and I just feel so torn apart and exhausted from constantly filling all of his needs, while he does not attempt to fill any of mine. He doesn't even care. Worst of all, he has manipulated me so much that I have no idea when he is telling the truth or lying. I feel like my whole marriage up until this point is meaningless... All a lie, and part of his game. He is always making comments about leaving me, or only keeping my around for very specific purposes, and I feel so used, empty, and unloved.
I'm just feeling hopeless. Any insight? My mental health is in shambles, and he doesn't even care, because he is sicker than me.
I'm just feeling hopeless. Any insight? My mental health is in shambles, and he doesn't even care, because he is sicker than me.
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