GraceDriven
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He wanted to move but she refused. She got a job here but he still felt it was best to move back home up north so he held off. Well she then took the initiative and divorced him and took over everything. Meanwhile, she claimed it was all his fault and that he is worthless.[.
That is why the mediating lawyers have become a big business. I don't think anyone wins including society. I don't think I would want it to go completely back to the way things were. Sometimes, people really need to say we have both given it what we can possibly give it and walk away. Sometimes the most healthy thing to do is call it quits.
[/QUOTE]Trust me, the feminist movement is not about voting or ownership rights anymore. It's about total control and destroying the family model that has worked for thousands of years. In other words, it's Satanic. [/QUOTE]
Who in the world would want to destroy the family model? I think you are "villainizing" people who really are just doing the best that they can. Kind of like Jesus when he was up on the cross and said , "forgive them father for they know not what they are doing." I have been both a mom who stayed home and one who had worked. I have found joy in both. I do tell my daughter to make sure she finds someone who will be supportive of what decision makes. Not having a supportive spouse can mean that you are really walking it alone.
[/QUOTE]I'm terribly sorry about the loss of your husband. But the Bible clearly tells us that it becomes the responsibility of extended family and the church to take care of you and your family's financial needs now. And again, you are twisting my words about the father/husband being the head of the family. In no way did I imply that you should not teach your boy how to do laundry or delegate tasks to your children.[/QUOTE]
I don't know what country or generation you are from, but our society has become more mobile. Families often don't live in clusters anymore, population has grown making commutes and time more restrained. I think a lot of divorce also happens because of these crazy commutes we have. We can not apply the old ways of doing things anymore. It is just not going to happen. We can wish but it won't make it happen. That's a thanks to all this technology that has occurred. We just have to move forward with what we have to work with. I wish we could bring some of the good from the past and incorporate in today's world.
I kind of think of myself as a Gomer more than a Jezebel.
Sorry, I could not quote correctly. I will receive a warning soon anyway.
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