Catherineanne
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- Sep 1, 2004
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Let me appoligize, I'm being needlessly mean.
I completely take offense that women must change their behavior, lest they be blamed for something men do. As someone else already said, that's why women wear burkas in some countries. They must be burdened for the lack of self-control in men, and that's not right.
So I took issue with the hole "some parts are holy" aspect of your post. I'm pretty sure you believe breasts are among those "holy" parts that should be covered up; yet, a man's chest is perfectly okay to display. Lately, I've come to think some double-standards just shouldn't exist, and wanted to make you think about the logic of saying "we must choose what parts are holy". I think it's just an excuse to blame the other for our own sins.
If women want to show their breasts, that is up to them. I don't have a problem myself, and I share your dislike of the double standard in this.
Still, I was a complete jerk for trying to make my point this way, and I apoligize. Sarcasm can be completely useless and counter-productive at times.
It doesn't work on me, certainly. But I wasn't offended. I thought it was funny, really.
Anyway, God bless. Women are the best things God's ever made.
If I speak for myself at present, the parts that I cover up, with several layers, are pretty well everything except my hands and face. But not because I am particularly holy, but because there are four inches of snow outside, and my house is very, very cold.
In the summer I have bare arms, and slightly lower tops, but the rest remains covered. I am attention averse. However, I do not set the standard for anyone else to follow; I am happy for other women to decide for themselves. If women live in a culture where breasts may be displayed, then good for them. I have no problem with that.
I was talking only of moving from a concept of shame to one of holiness. If that holiness is only covered by a G-string, that is fine with me, as long as nobody expects me to appear like that.
I was only trying to lose the 'naked equals shameful' motif. I think you assumed from that 'naked equals profane', which to be honest is just as bad. Veiled/hidden equals holy is more the way I would express it.
Female sexuality is necessarily more holy than male sexuality, because God hides it further away from sight. When a man undresses his sexuality is apparent; a woman's remains hidden, because it is holier. By which you can conclude that I am not including the breasts as sexual organs, because they are not.
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