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shahnaz
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Hi!
I would like to get some advice concerning boundaries in music and entertainment: what is ok for a Christian? I’m having problems in deciding what’s wrong and what’s right. One factor related to this is that I have obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), which makes me extra careful in choosing my music etc, since I feel guilty if I don’t follow my boundaries.
I’m interested in music, singing, celebrities, movies…I’m quite a good singer…Because of ocd and not being able to get into university, I’m still living at home (i'm 23), in a small town, without friends…so entertainment (my hobbies) is very important for me. I’m a born again believer and want to do things according to God’s Word.
Here are some specific things I’m having difficulties with:
1. I would like to sing secular hits, such as Alone – Celine Dion; I drove All night (Celine Dion);
I have nothing (Whitney Houston); Listen (Beyonce Knowles); But I feel that if I sing them I’m sinning, since they all contain things which are not right:
Alone: a depressed man or women, finds no way to tell to his/her love that he/she loves him/her;
I drove all night: hint about premarital sex;
I have nothing: exaggerates the relationship between man and a woman; ‘I have nothing if I don’t have you’; it’s wrong from a Christian perspective.
Listen: emphasises a ‘wrong’ attitude towards somebody ? (i’m not sure about that….)
2. I want to see celebrity interviews on You Tube, such as singers and actors:
many of them are probably very nice people, but they do wrong things, and that’s why I feel I should not concentrate on them…listen or watch them:
For example: Beyonce’s image: see has very bad clothes (or almost non at all)
3. Christian music: rock:
Natalie Grant’s song Our hope Endures: I like the sound, but he words seem to be a bit too deppressive: are they? If they are, it’s probably wrong…
Her music video: I will not be moved: I feel that there’s something wrong about it…
One may ask why I’m interested in secular stuff: because they make musically great songs! And Christian artist do not have many songs which I like….I mean, they have wonderful songs (Orphans of God: Avalon; Natalie Grant: Held) but it seems that Christian artist do not have so much money to do things as secular artist: therefore there are fewer Christian songs out there.
I need your help on this!
Thanks in advance!
Have a nice day!
shahnaz
I would like to get some advice concerning boundaries in music and entertainment: what is ok for a Christian? I’m having problems in deciding what’s wrong and what’s right. One factor related to this is that I have obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), which makes me extra careful in choosing my music etc, since I feel guilty if I don’t follow my boundaries.
I’m interested in music, singing, celebrities, movies…I’m quite a good singer…Because of ocd and not being able to get into university, I’m still living at home (i'm 23), in a small town, without friends…so entertainment (my hobbies) is very important for me. I’m a born again believer and want to do things according to God’s Word.
Here are some specific things I’m having difficulties with:
1. I would like to sing secular hits, such as Alone – Celine Dion; I drove All night (Celine Dion);
I have nothing (Whitney Houston); Listen (Beyonce Knowles); But I feel that if I sing them I’m sinning, since they all contain things which are not right:
Alone: a depressed man or women, finds no way to tell to his/her love that he/she loves him/her;
I drove all night: hint about premarital sex;
I have nothing: exaggerates the relationship between man and a woman; ‘I have nothing if I don’t have you’; it’s wrong from a Christian perspective.
Listen: emphasises a ‘wrong’ attitude towards somebody ? (i’m not sure about that….)
2. I want to see celebrity interviews on You Tube, such as singers and actors:
many of them are probably very nice people, but they do wrong things, and that’s why I feel I should not concentrate on them…listen or watch them:
For example: Beyonce’s image: see has very bad clothes (or almost non at all)
3. Christian music: rock:
Natalie Grant’s song Our hope Endures: I like the sound, but he words seem to be a bit too deppressive: are they? If they are, it’s probably wrong…
Her music video: I will not be moved: I feel that there’s something wrong about it…
One may ask why I’m interested in secular stuff: because they make musically great songs! And Christian artist do not have many songs which I like….I mean, they have wonderful songs (Orphans of God: Avalon; Natalie Grant: Held) but it seems that Christian artist do not have so much money to do things as secular artist: therefore there are fewer Christian songs out there.
I need your help on this!
Thanks in advance!
Have a nice day!
shahnaz