I am an atheist. My sister is a born again Christian. She has no family other than her siblings. She was in a terrible accident and will likely suffer from the injuries for the rest of his life. I respect the fact that religion is important in her life.
Many of her friends have friended me on Facebook and I have accepted their friendship. I post updates on my sister's condition. They often post prayers and the like in response. That is fine. But some have started posting on my page long and somewhat tedious prayers and other religious ramblings. They also come to the hospital and want me to pray with them. Some even tried to grab my hand to join me in their prayer. I have handled it by removing posts from my wall--it stays out there in the FB universe somewhere. If they want me to pray with them in the hospital I may ignore them and stand quietly while they pray. I try to avoid attempts to grab my hand (which must be the thing to do in their group) by keeping some physical distance. I sometimes leave the room and say that I will give them some privacy. This is not about me. It is about their relationship and love for my sister. But I don't want to pretend I am not what I am. I see no good reason to share my own personal views on religion. I do however find the constant pushing at me of their brand of religion rather presumptive.
So Christians and nonChristians, do you think I am handling this properly?
And, do you think it is appropriate to push people who are total strangers to you to pray with you, much less try to grab their hand?
Many of her friends have friended me on Facebook and I have accepted their friendship. I post updates on my sister's condition. They often post prayers and the like in response. That is fine. But some have started posting on my page long and somewhat tedious prayers and other religious ramblings. They also come to the hospital and want me to pray with them. Some even tried to grab my hand to join me in their prayer. I have handled it by removing posts from my wall--it stays out there in the FB universe somewhere. If they want me to pray with them in the hospital I may ignore them and stand quietly while they pray. I try to avoid attempts to grab my hand (which must be the thing to do in their group) by keeping some physical distance. I sometimes leave the room and say that I will give them some privacy. This is not about me. It is about their relationship and love for my sister. But I don't want to pretend I am not what I am. I see no good reason to share my own personal views on religion. I do however find the constant pushing at me of their brand of religion rather presumptive.
So Christians and nonChristians, do you think I am handling this properly?
And, do you think it is appropriate to push people who are total strangers to you to pray with you, much less try to grab their hand?