Hey everyone!
I have a serious problem that I'd like to discuss.
I'm a freshman in college and I met a guy who's a Protestant. We've fallen in love. But I'm not a Protestant. In fact, my parents aren't Christians though my dad was baptized, they're not believers. As a result I wasn't baptized nor taught much about religion. Actually I don't know if I believe in God or not. But this boy I love and who loves me has a very strong faith in God. He goes to church every Sunday, goes to youth club and is very involved in his church community. And so is his family.
He knew I wasn't a Christian from the beginning but we were spending a lot of time together and enjoying it so I thought we were gonna date. But when we finally talked about it, he said he couldn't date me even though he had feelings for me because I'm not a Protestant.
I think it takes a lot of courage to make such decision but it causes me a lot of pain (and I know it also hurts him a lot) and I find this situation unfair. I mean there's a lot of people who are obviously not meant to be together and yet they stick together. Plus can I be blamed for being raised in a family who doesn't believe in God?
This whole situation got me wondering what my beliefs were. Turns out I have no idea so I started reading the Bible. I find it really interesting. I even went to church and it made me feel better. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to become a Christian for him. I've always wanted to read the Bible. This situation is just what made me realize that it was about time to do it.
Anyway, my point is: if you were this boy, would you date me? I mean I respect his beliefs, I'm even impressed. I would never do or say anything that could weaken his faith. I'm even willing to go to church with him. I would never do anything to threat his abstinence vow (and I'm still a virgin) and I can assure you that our relationship is only based on true and pure feelings. And I'm getting more and more attracted to religion thanks to the Bible. I mean this isn't how average non-Christians are, right?
So yeah, what would you if you were him? And if there something in the Bible that says Christians can only be with Christians (on a dating level! cause I know Christians can't marry non-Christians)?
I hope I might myself clear and that you guys can help me with this issue
I have a serious problem that I'd like to discuss.
I'm a freshman in college and I met a guy who's a Protestant. We've fallen in love. But I'm not a Protestant. In fact, my parents aren't Christians though my dad was baptized, they're not believers. As a result I wasn't baptized nor taught much about religion. Actually I don't know if I believe in God or not. But this boy I love and who loves me has a very strong faith in God. He goes to church every Sunday, goes to youth club and is very involved in his church community. And so is his family.
He knew I wasn't a Christian from the beginning but we were spending a lot of time together and enjoying it so I thought we were gonna date. But when we finally talked about it, he said he couldn't date me even though he had feelings for me because I'm not a Protestant.
I think it takes a lot of courage to make such decision but it causes me a lot of pain (and I know it also hurts him a lot) and I find this situation unfair. I mean there's a lot of people who are obviously not meant to be together and yet they stick together. Plus can I be blamed for being raised in a family who doesn't believe in God?
This whole situation got me wondering what my beliefs were. Turns out I have no idea so I started reading the Bible. I find it really interesting. I even went to church and it made me feel better. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to become a Christian for him. I've always wanted to read the Bible. This situation is just what made me realize that it was about time to do it.
Anyway, my point is: if you were this boy, would you date me? I mean I respect his beliefs, I'm even impressed. I would never do or say anything that could weaken his faith. I'm even willing to go to church with him. I would never do anything to threat his abstinence vow (and I'm still a virgin) and I can assure you that our relationship is only based on true and pure feelings. And I'm getting more and more attracted to religion thanks to the Bible. I mean this isn't how average non-Christians are, right?
So yeah, what would you if you were him? And if there something in the Bible that says Christians can only be with Christians (on a dating level! cause I know Christians can't marry non-Christians)?
I hope I might myself clear and that you guys can help me with this issue