- Dec 21, 2013
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I don't think anyone believes evil goes unchecked. What a man sows, he will reap.
And what about the bad that comes from sickness, divorce, or war? I believe good comes from evil. However, bad also comes from evil. My first marriage ended in divorce. It was not good for me nor my two children. My children lost a loving father, and I lost two precious children. Through circumstances I won't mention, I haven't see my children in over 20 years. I missed their growing into young adults; I missed the joy of being a part of their lives. I can't count the tears I've shed. Is this the plan I should accept from God? Or was this due to another person's choices? A very big part of my heart and life has been forever taken from me, and can't be replaced.
You lack the perspective to make a final call on any situation, we all do. Having also been through a divorce where children are involved I can relate and sympathize. I have not seen them in a few years now, but I take comfort in knowing there is a purpose in all things. I hope someday you can too.
With all the pain I've had, some want me to believe this is not the only disappointment I may experience. Some want me to believe my children, not only lost a father, but they may be lost forever by God's predestination. Sorry, there is no comfort whatsoever in this hideous belief.
Brother you say that "God will lead me to where I need to be" but lack the faith to see that all things are for His divine will and purpose!
Why pray for those we love, if God predestined them to hell? If they were predestined to hell, then no amount of prayer will change that.
Because we do not know who is predestined to Hell, and its not our job to know. We pray for all as if all will be saved. There is no hurt in trying.
I am glad your marriage has been predestined to work. Some of us aren't as fortunate.
Not the first one, but my current marriage going on five years has been an immense blessing.
Does He use unbelievers to bring about His purpose of ruined lives?
For all things.
You're welcome Doug. However, I will never agree with your beliefs. Some come on here and accuse me of so many things, without knowing who I am. One has even questioned my salvation, and called my questions and inquiries silly. However, I don't hold grudges or revenge on anyone. God will lead me to where I need to be.
Never say never! I wouldn't worry about the accusers and I may have been one of them for a time. We may not agree on the finer points regarding salvation but you've made no indication of being anything other than a Christian in my opinion. I'm thankful you do not hold a grudge, we might turn out to be friends after all.
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