Sorry I wrote it that way, Michie. I'm still touchy about this one. I just recently lost my beloved aunt and it still torments me. Was there more we could've done that we didn't do/didn't know to do? She was physically, emotionally, and likely spiritually suffering so much, she really wanted to end it all, even by her own hand. She desperately wanted it all to just stop. We did the best we could, but the best we could sometimes just isn't good enough.
My husband reminds me that if anything more was done, we'd've only prolonged her pain. He's right (I hate it that he's right), but prolonging her pain is the very last thing I'd want to do. When you're face to face with this issue with someone you love so much, it's not hard to see the point of view of those who wish assisted suicide legal, as rotten as that sounds. You too just want it to end because you don't want your loved one hurting that much anymore.