Do you like very independent women with "intimidating" and successful careers?
Yeah there are some woman that are as you described most of the time.One thing I notice about women who have intimidating and successful careers is that it seems to make them almost inhuman. They are always guarded but yet on the offense. Always suspicious. Always competing. I want a woman who lets her guard down and isn't a big ole phony.
One thing I notice about women who have intimidating and successful careers is that it seems to make them almost inhuman. They are always guarded but yet on the offense. Always suspicious. Always competing. I want a woman who lets her guard down and isn't a big ole phony.
Yes, I definitely like very independant women, intimidating career or not.
Less independant women tend to make you part, lets be honest, most of their identity. I would prefer a woman who has her own identity, while I have my own identity, then we have ours together.
Not that I have a high-paying powerful career, but I have been in situations where men have been intimidated by my education and/or put off by my vocation. Common wisdom has it (whether it's true or not) that unless a man is already in ministry, he's not likely to go for the idea of being a pastor's husband. That doesn't bother me to the extent that it affects how I view men, but I have one friend for whom that is the case, and I can understand how such defensiveness might arise.
Yeah there are some woman that are as you described most of the time.
BUT...
Remember who she is on the job can be very different than who she is away from the job and certainly with loved ones whether that be family, friends or boyfriend.
Sometimes the job requires a person to be detached and unemotional especially is over (mostly) men.
The fact is in the workplace a woman still has a hard time getting respect even when she is more competent.
I strongly disagree. Respect has nothing at all to do with gender (male or female) but has everything to do with humility. If a woman (or man) is condescending or arrogant or prideful, that woman or man is not deserving of respect.
Too many people play hierarchical games and do not have the inner strength to live in the spirit instead of the animalistic flesh. Such is the world we live in.
I strongly disagree. Respect has nothing at all to do with gender (male or female) but has everything to do with humility. If a woman (or man) is condescending or arrogant or prideful, that woman or man is not deserving of respect.
Too many people play hierarchical games and do not have the inner strength to live in the spirit instead of the animalistic flesh. Such is the world we live in.
If that woman was williing to give up her career and all her money and success and ego, etc.... should God call her to go and serve as a missionary in an impoverished country saving souls and preaching the Gospel......I'd have no problem with it.
Yeah. It's not just about economics. Women in ministry are great as far as I'm concerned, as one example. But I know where you're coming from, Macrina & I'm sure you've heard it all. Another example might be that "she" has a job down at the legal co-op & gets paid peanuts but has alphabet soup after her last name.