Using Human definitions, especially when limited to Western (i.e. Greek) and post modern thinking, it's easy to conclude that God is contradictory. God is a God of grace and love as well as just and intolerant of behavior that is unrepentantly sinful. As believers Ananias and Sapphira knew of God's grace and love but chose to lie to both the disciples and the Holy Spirit. It was the hand of God that dealt justice for their sinful behavior.
There is often the limited logical argument that if a Christian doesn't embrace a particular social group then they must hate that group. This is why we have so many (fill in the blank)phobes with regard to Christians. Let's remember that phobias are fears not a dislike thereof. It's relatively easy to label someone with a made up phobia when they disagree or dislike something. This labeling and name calling is a form of bullying those into shame for their beliefs and is also hypocritical of their own message.
An example of this ideology is found in the statement "Okay, I get that you don't want a gay man or woman in your home because of your preconceived notion they are borderline child molesters, but unless you have had some traumatic, personal experience, your prejudice is unfounded." If this were the true then those who dislike Christians are only justified if they were traumatized by Christ.
Specifically this has been a tactic of the LGBT community for decades. While members of the LGBT believe that Christians hate them and are out to cause them harm. True Christ followers believe that members of the LGBT community are just like everyone else, sinners in desperate need of salvation. What's not easy to see is lack of endorsement is not hate, lack of acceptance is not intolerance. The world seems to delight in offending Christians, then whine about being offended by anything a Christian does, all while accusing Christians of being intolerant. And yet that same world will preach it's sermon that Christians are both intolerant and hypocritical and not see the self-defeating argument presented.
It is my opinion that being a Christian is more than salvation. It is also the continuous "renewing of our minds" (Romans 12), improvement of the human condition, for each individual person. Christians are called to avoid hypocrisy by both Christ (Matthew 7) and Paul (Romans 12). Unfortunately Christians are too often hypocritical which leaves the world wondering why they should become a Christ follower. Keep in mind that there isn't one individual or social group that also isn't hypocritical in their own message (ideology) as well. If we were to judge (discern), base our opinion of the ideology, any particular person or social group on their hypocrisy none would be a shining example. The difference is Christians are challenged with the goal of improving themselves and the Christian community as "representatives of Christ" (2 Corinthians 5:20) while the world is not so challenged.
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