My 2 year old just started throwing fits right after his second birthday...he was the sweetest boy before then and all of a sudden he started throwing these aweful tantrums. Well I'm almost afraid we're making it worse. My husband doesn't tolerate whining, crying or screaming....I on the other hand am very patient and can put up with it because we also have a 4 month old and if I'm in the middle of feeding her...I don't have time to go discipline my son immediately when my husband isn't around. My husband tells me I have to be firm with my son, but I feel like he's almost too harsh and so when it comes to being firm with him, I am firm but my son figures Daddy is much worse so he can throw the fit with me no matter what I do. Now I do believe in spanking, but the spanking too often may make it worse don't you think? My husband spanks him about 6 times in a row(at least) when he's fussing. When I catch him fussing, I try to calm him down first and when that doesn't work, I scold him and if he carries on then I spank him. But if I spank him, that sometimes makes him madder, because I don't do it as hard as my husband I guess. Should there be a limit to the spankings and are we making it worse?
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