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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    I'm sorry but I don't understand. I am a new poster. But my "story" is real. And very much genuine.
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    The thing is I have realized this is all typically threats. He wants to make me feel scared. I don't think he would really do this. But he threatens it and I freak out because I am destroyed that he would say this to his pregnant wife. He will later respond by saying I shouldn't push him to say...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    My husband faced assault charges! And this is me needing sympathy? No. I am asking for objective advice. So I should just let me husband make a scene. Lose my job. Then what??? Please tell me. He said if that happens he will go live with his parents. And I will just need to "find my own life".
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    If I did that we would be in horrible trouble. He is not acting rational. Last night he came into the bedroom and told me he was hearing voices and steps in the house. Said he heard someone call his name. Then after we fought for hours last night over a decision he already made yesterday (to...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    I'm 35. And I know life will need to focus on the baby...but I have the stress of working too -- and apparently keeping us afloat. He had the opportunity to take a job with a one year contract -- it gave him one year salary and he would have to commit to a 5 year lease for his business after...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    I am pregnant. My whole life is really HIM. I don't have any outside friends really anymore... many of them didn't understand why I went back to him and I haven't forced them to hang out with us. It's all very uncomfortable. So how do I have the strength to just LEAVE? I haven't succeeded in...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    I am scared. I will be honest with you. If I told him any of that -- and actually go on this work trip without him. I will not hold up. He will leave me -- and the idea that he's out with his friends and telling me about it in a way that leads me to worry about his being with other women --...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    i have called his bluff before. I have left. I have packed and gone and he begged me back -- several times. This was before the assault charge that was dismissed. Since I came back after this being dismissed -- I haven't left. But, he says I have given him PtSD. He literally fought/yelled...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    I can't tell him he isn't going -- he already bought the ticket. And honestly, I believe that he will leave me if I do that OR he will make my life a living hell while I'm there, accusing me of flirting with people or having a good time with my bosses. In addition, He will tell me HE is going...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    The problem is everyday he tells me that he and I are done. He threatens our relationship constantly. I cry. I beg him to stop. He says it's just the price I have to pay for my actions. And he says when I cry. I am manipulating. Tonight he told me I was a horrible partner because he spent 30...
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    Will my husband's assault charge affect my job?

    Need some advice ladies. I have drama in my head and I need some objective perspective. My husband and I had issues about a year ago. He was charged with assault for hurting me during an argument. It was kind of an accident but it was still his fault. I pressed for charges and they were...