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Thanks! It's funny. I have friends who love me to death and want the best for me yet see it all as attitude and if I just committed myself to change and allowed God to work in my life then I would be a completely different person. So it's all up to me and meds and brain chemistry have no part. They don't oppose the use of meds though. Then there is my brother. He is a part-time pastor, seminary graduate, who denies your pre-christian past even affects you. He claims that once you become a Christian you are a new creation and the old man has died and is gone. He fails to understand that is a reference to sin's grip on us but does not mean our past hurts are all instantly healed. He is totally against anything but completely Biblical counseling and thinks meds are not the answer. He sees everything as a sin problem. If you're depressed its because you are not content in Christ. If you are anxious then you are not trusting God's provision. So the solution to every problem is to repent!I am glad to hear you are getting help and sad to hear that it is a struggle to find something that works. I am sure that the answer lies somewhere in both counseling and medications since the chemical imbalance is probably a result of the mental trauma that damages how the brain functions....on top of anything that would have been there even without the tough childhood. And like anyone struggling with a chronic medical condition, it is not proof that God doesn't love you or that you are doing something wrong. Keep reaching for a life that you can be satisfied with...even if that doesn't look like one that anyone else would chose. This is all temporary luckily. ((hugs))
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