Some of society is saying that it is OK to be gay since that is the way a person is born. Just as it's OK to be born with blue eyes. Despite the evidence, you seem to want to stick to the "choice" argument so that you can continue to express your religious based bias.
There
are people struggling with it. Especially young people in religious families and environments where attitudes like yours are prevalent.
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/facts-about-suicide
• Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among young people ages 10 to 24.
• LGB youth are 4 times more likely, and questioning youth are 3 times more likely, to attempt suicide as their straight peers.
• LGB youth who come from highly rejecting families are 8.4 times as likely to have attempted suicide as LGB peers who reported no or low levels of family rejection.
It's interesting that you would bring that up. This should show you that a lot of people have been pretending to be straight, when in fact they were born homosexual and had suppressed their nature for years. Some of these people hide their nature. Some of these people commit suicide. Some preach loudly against homosexuality in the mistaken belief it will change them.
And yet, some people like you still believe it's all "choice".