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Asf1980

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Ok so my wife left me for another guy. She has thrown me mixed signals here and there making me think there was hope. Man am i stupid!!! I'm tired of praying for restoration, all it does is give me false hope. I open my heart for restoration then find out she spent the weekend with her boyfriend.

Please tell me why I'm 35 and so dang stupid? I would not want this woman back now if she came begging.

Advice to men. If your wife leaves you for another man do yourself a huge favor, let her go, run the other direction. Same for woman run if this happens to you. There is no way God would expect you to continue keeping an open heart in this situation.

I could probably use a prayer to help with my anger.
 

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You are not stupid.

Marriage was created to be the uniting of two souls to become one. Your mind can process the logic of what happened, but your heart wants what it had back. Our emotions, even as men, can not be turned on and off like a light switch. Takes time, grieving, and working it out.

Anger is very natural, you been betrayed. Definitely seek out friends, people you trust, to talk to and pray over you as you go through this. Find ways to work through your anger, and help you cope. Nothing more powerful than men of God praying over you and the pain you carry. That the Lord help you through it all.
 
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