Fine with being single, but why do I always have to be so ALONE?

redblue22 said:

God is all that is?

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I am you and you are me. Being...
Sounds like that guy who was into buddhism or something.

"Love does not rejoice in iniquity, love rejoices in the truth."
"The Way, The Truth, and The Life."
"God is Love."

Very common Biblical verses.

good verse too.

just questioning what I hear. I'd say the alarm went off for you.

miss-a said:

I think that it is very common for single people our age to find ourselves spending lots of time alone. I am one of them. I have no family relations. My friends are married. The ones who are not are busy spinnng their wheels trying to make ..........

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I feel the same!

I just spend 3 days this weekend with 36 people, most of whom I didn't know. It was an amazing time together ... some of us learned new things about ourselves thru the exercises. For me it was all about getting to know a few more people. Learning better how to be a friend.

dayhiker said:

I just spend 3 days this weekend with 36 people, most of whom I didn't know.

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LOL... It's funny how sometimes my brain will complete a sentence before my eyes get to the end of it. I was ready for "I just spent 3 days this weekend with 36 people, most of whom I didn't like."

I gotta stop reading so much Mark Twain.......

lol at Bass ... Maybe you should take a speed reading class so your eyes can catch up with your mind!

yesyoushould said:

I'm glad you said that. I have never understood that man island quote. I have heard it a few times, and it never makes sense to me. I suppose it is a man thing, not complete without God.


I just don't understand how come it is confusing you both that I'm saying "God fills all of our needs."

Is there any other poster reading this that doesn't feel alone in God? Or am I alone, with God? : )

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Hi-There's nothing wrong with feeling this way. I agree with what another said, that God created Eve so that Adam would not be alone. We are not meant to be loners, we are meant to share life with others. Why else is the Church called the "Body of Christ". A body is not a singular unit, it is made up of many parts, that don't function independently, but depend on each other. I also suffer with feelings of loneliness & isolation bc I am now single again after being married for almost 20 years. All my girlfriends are married and busy with their families, it is impossible to get them to do anything! Being a female, I do not feel safe going for a walk/hike alone or many other activities by myself. Much of the time I wish I had new friends. I have decided that I will be moving in a couple of years in search for a new church, and mission in life. Hopefully, you & I can both make some great friends on this site-God Bless!