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I have posted about this guy before. Since then we have become exclusive and he just visited me for the 1st time. I cannot stamp out this feeling of disconnect (when apart) which to me is more then the miles btw us. I felt this way shortly before I ended my 1st serious relationship, where we...

I experienced my 1st real BU a year ago. I loved the guy and I put my all in the relationship, he ended up taking me for granted. I am starting to date another guy and I keep having doubts, just afraid that he isn't into me as much as I am into him. I would rather be single, then be in a...

So I have posted about a guy I met online. I managed to find cheap plane tickets to visit him, so I am going there in a little bit. We have been messaging for over a month and skyping/texting for over 2 weeks. I really like him and I just want to meet him in person as soon as I can. I made...

We haven't met in person because he lives far away, I am visiting him for a day though. We Skype and text. We always talk about what we want in a relationship: not pointing out other good looking guys/girls, appreciating each other, communicating when something is wrong, wanting affirmations and...

I know my ex and I texted like crazy in the beginning, the relationship fizzled fast though and when he drew back, I felt like the rug had been pulled from under me.

The thing is he isn't working today (as far as I know) and as of now 4 messages (hours apart) have gone unanswered. Typically he replies to my morning text right away. The funny thing is though on social media I can see he hasn't been active for a day, sometimes he won't reply but will be...

That's what I'm thinking because if a guy says he isn't interested, i do not pursue, nor do I chase. I experienced a guy ghosting me and that has put me on edge.

I have never asked him about it because we have never met in person and I feel like asking him that will scare him away. He once told me that his phone sometimes does not show him notifications, but I feel like if he was interested and hasn't heard from me in awhile why wouldn't he just text me?

I am getting to know a guy long distance, we met online. I am really struggling to figure him out. In the next couple of weeks I plan on visiting him for a day (he lives in another city, short plane ride away), he seems excited. I have noticed sometimes it takes ages for him to reply (12hrs or...

That's why I want to visit him, when we talk on Skype he seems so into me, but the lack of texting is weird for me.

He is excited to see me, if he wasn't I wouldn't be going (we planned out a whole day together). The funny thing is that the last time we were on Skype, after I told him the day I would visit, he started talked about how he wanted reassurance in a relationship, that whatever someone does is...

I have posted this before and I am just trying to feel this guy out. We met online and after a month of net chatting we moved to vid chatting and skyping. We clicked right away and can spend hours talking on Skype. His texts are lacking though and I'm getting a feeling that he doesn't put a...

I actually set a date to go see him, still need to get details, wish me luck!

I sent him a couple during the day, all spread out and he did respond pretty enthusiastically

His reply was morning! :D going great, my pain is almost gone.