Recent content by nikkey76

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    Please Lord we need your mercy and grace!

    :wave:Blessings Everyone! I've been away for a while. In May I was pretty sick with schingles , a Lupus flare, and a hospital visit. Praise God I am better now. June proved to be a month of up's and downs. First the up's I got a chance to speak at a seminar for Breast Cancer awareness in...
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    Prayer for financial freedom

    :groupray:Please pray for and with me as this is something the Lord placed on my heart during the holidays last year and I am working very hard to achieve. Dear Lord, Please forgive me. I am a sinner and have been very foolish with your money over the years. When I was young I didn't...
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    A prayer for my son

    Dear Lord, I confess that I am a sinner and I beg you to hear my plea. Lord you have turned my heart toward you and I know that means I am taking the long hard road to salvation but I accept the cup you have passed to me. Lord there are so many request I have and you know them all before I...
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    Was it abuse?

    Thank you everyone.I have been carrying that for a long time. I am praying about seeking help, and putting up healthy boundaries between me and my ex.
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    Don't think I can make it through this

    I woke up today angry.I need to reflect and come to terms with what happened in my marriage.I am divorced now and have no desire to get back with my husband. I get so angry at him sometimes as I try to maintain a friendship with him for our son's sake. He feels free to share with me all the...
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    Was it abuse?

    puregrl - Thank you for sharing. It know it's silly to think your the only one, but I really did. I didn't even know there was a such thing as spousal rape. I think maybe I should seek some help ( preferably from a consoler or psychiatrist that believes in God) visinary - I hear what your...
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    Was it abuse?

    I was married for 5 years. Through out this marriage I was never a very sexual person. After a point in the marriage it became very difficult for me to enjoy sex. When I brought this up to my husband he said it was my Christian duty and his right as my husband no matter how I felt. I voiced my...
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    Are Confederate flags unpatriotic?

    As an African American I have always felt threatened by seeing that flag on cars, homes, and businesses ( and I live in New York State!) . I understand being proud of your heritage but when that heritage involves unwarranted violence, prejudice, and intimidation then it's wrong. My parents...
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    Is Using a Fleshlight a Sin? Can Christains Use Sex Toys?

    Wow my ex husband use to have that issue and we were married. I was ok with it at first but when it became his "dirty little secret" I became really bothered by it. Once we separated and divorced he admitted he knew it was a sin but couldn't help himself. I have to say I have never felt the...
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    Dealing with Divorce by Faith

    It would be interesting, to say the least. When I asked my ex to leave he recommended marriage consoling via the church. I was so over with the idea of receiving help by the church but I wanted to try this out feeling that if God really wanted things to work they would work. It was a great...
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    God is my boyfriend

    :cool:I can certainly understand how that might make a man uncomfortable. I think I I were a guy I would feel better thinking of God as a father figure instead.:thumbsup: I have seen the "bride of Christ thing taken a little too far where women are substitution God for their husbands in a...
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    Recommendations on great music...

    Thats quite a list and a great start, now off to iTunes to get new music! Thanks.
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    Recommendations on great music...

    :thumbsup: Thanks guys . ( I didn't know Switchfoot was a Christian band.)
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    Hi there I am Nikkey

    Thank you all for the warm welcome!
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    Intersex

    I think they ( hermaphrodites ) need our love and support. They were born physically different and have to cope with the result of that ( which cannot be easy ). They can life as they are or have a sex change and choose a side. Both seem very painful physically and emotionally. God does not make...