You may feel that you see these things, but please do not speak for others who do not see them.
They are all in Scripture.
While few would disagree with women in the New Testament being what we might today call a deaconess (Greek diakonos/διάκονος, meaning a servant), the "apostle" designation is found, not in scripture,
"Apostle" means/comes from a word which means, "sent". I understand there is one passage in which this refers to all believers.
It, mostly, refers to the 12 disciples but not always.
but in the mind of modern Eves who wish to be independent of their men, and in the mind of men who wish to unburden themselves of their God-given responsibilities, placing these upon women who have naively accepted them.
Nonsense.
The text most attempt to leverage to their cause with respect to female apostleship is this:
It's not a matter of "leverage to a cause."
It's the fact that God calls women to be preachers/be ordained. He does this today and has been doing it for some years - indeed, he may have been doing it for many years, but men haven't always listened.
God cannot and will not contradict his word. So the fact that he has been, and is, calling women to this role means that there is nothing in Scripture which says otherwise. Otherwise God would, indeed, be contradicting his word.
"Salute Andronicus and Junia, my kinsmen, and my fellow-prisoners, who are of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me." (Romans 16:7).
No, it doesn't all hinge on that one verse.
God can call whoever he wishes to proclaim his Gospel, grow and lead local gatherings of his church and further his kingdom. He has always done this - Deborah, Huldah, Miriam and many others - and will always have that right and authority. He is God; it is his church and he created all of us in his image.
In the Bible God even appointed animals to do his will - e.g Balaam's donkey and the great fish, and the worm, in Jonah's story. He provided a burning bush to speak to Moses, and a wind, fire and earthquake to get Elijah's attention. Jesus told the Pharisees that if people were to refrain from worship, even the very stones would cry out - and it is certainly possible that God could have made that happen.
All through Scripture, women served God. Sometimes being raised to positions of authority, like Deborah; other times being accepted as godly people, like Huldah. The king instructed his male priest, and other men, to consult a prophet to ask for a word from the Lord. The priest didn't say, "hold on; I am a man of God, that's my job" - the men chose to go to Huldah, who gave them God's word.
In the Gospels, Jesus allowed women to proclaim his message, speak for him and learn from him - all against the expected norms of society.
Elders are not now, nor ever, the equivalent of priests.
Different traditions have different names for their clergy, or those in the role of leading God's people; priests, vicars, Ministers, Pastors and possibly elders. These days, they all tend to mean much the same thing - those who lead local congregations, teach the word, administer the sacraments, have pastoral oversight of their congregations, perform baptisms, weddings and so on.
We don't have an exact equivalent of OT priests, no; we don't have animal sacrifices, nor circumcise our males.