Hello,
I've been on a different site that has been discussing pre-marital sex and purity. When I was a kid my family went to a Baptist church where I learned pre-marital sex is absolutely a sin, and purity meant no lustful thoughts, no masturbation, and nothing beyond light kissing in a relationship. I figured that was what all Christians thought until I met a girl in college from a different denomination who felt pre-marital sex was not a sin and that was a misinterpretation, and all the other restrictions that I mentioned above for purity were moot as well. She believed however that promiscuity and sex for the sake of just personal gratification was not something that lined up with God's attitude towards sex.
I understand that particularly with purity, there's a lot of variation in beliefs, and from what I understand of the Bible, it can be pretty vague. I'm curious what is the Methodist take on pre-marital sex and purity? How does one navigate through the Bible on these topics in a careful and thoughtful manner?
Thanks,
Wonder
I've been on a different site that has been discussing pre-marital sex and purity. When I was a kid my family went to a Baptist church where I learned pre-marital sex is absolutely a sin, and purity meant no lustful thoughts, no masturbation, and nothing beyond light kissing in a relationship. I figured that was what all Christians thought until I met a girl in college from a different denomination who felt pre-marital sex was not a sin and that was a misinterpretation, and all the other restrictions that I mentioned above for purity were moot as well. She believed however that promiscuity and sex for the sake of just personal gratification was not something that lined up with God's attitude towards sex.
I understand that particularly with purity, there's a lot of variation in beliefs, and from what I understand of the Bible, it can be pretty vague. I'm curious what is the Methodist take on pre-marital sex and purity? How does one navigate through the Bible on these topics in a careful and thoughtful manner?
Thanks,
Wonder