Well, I would first like to say that I am very sorry to hear about your current misfortune concerning you and this man. However, the Bible clearly states that as a Christian, we are all subject to the word of God no matter who we are. When we fail at this, and at times we certainly will as I have personally witnessed in my own life, then there is always some price that we must pay. And it is these type situations that we will go through for not doing the correct things in life, which are actually quite impossible for us to do at all times, that the word of God has prescribed for us to do and we fail. And not by request concerning what we should do, but by the loving commands that God would have us to do because He has created us in His image. And it is by that image which is in the likeness of Christ, what we will be fully perfected latter on with the mind of Christ, without corruption or inadequacy, but eternally with Him, and in Him, in the kingdom of God forever which we are part of even now.
So, I guess the options here according to trust, should be considered by you concerning about what to do next.
In my humble opinion, if it were me in a similar situation, I would meditate on this issue long and hard and wait at least until the end of the semester before making any decision about leaving school.
I certainly know what it feels like to be betrayed by another. But, if no reconciliation comes of this, in time I believe that real healing will take place in both of your lives by the power of God as it is by that power, compassion, and mercy, that we all live and are able to function in no matter what situations or circumstances that we might find ourselves in at any time in our lives and not just in this instance!
Therefore, if you eventually reconcile with this person, then it will be by the power of God.
If you do not reconcile with this person, then it will be by the power of Almighty God also.
Please do not sell anyone short here, especially if God may have a plan for your life which may or may not include him in it.
I have been down this road also, and know this: You are not being punished by God in any way for anything that you have done sister in Christ and I sincerely mean this too!
By God's wisdom and foreknowledge you and he were originally brought together, and please remember also that God also in His foreknowledge and the wisdom that goes along with it, has never given or taken anything from any one of His elect that cannot be managed or handled by us at anytime, or at any juncture in our entire lives, as all things ultimately work for good according to the word of God and through His Spirit concerning the ones who God loves.
And I know by these things for certain, that He will never stop loving you!
Your brother,
Jimmie
So, I guess the options here according to trust, should be considered by you concerning about what to do next.
In my humble opinion, if it were me in a similar situation, I would meditate on this issue long and hard and wait at least until the end of the semester before making any decision about leaving school.
I certainly know what it feels like to be betrayed by another. But, if no reconciliation comes of this, in time I believe that real healing will take place in both of your lives by the power of God as it is by that power, compassion, and mercy, that we all live and are able to function in no matter what situations or circumstances that we might find ourselves in at any time in our lives and not just in this instance!
Therefore, if you eventually reconcile with this person, then it will be by the power of God.
If you do not reconcile with this person, then it will be by the power of Almighty God also.
Please do not sell anyone short here, especially if God may have a plan for your life which may or may not include him in it.
I have been down this road also, and know this: You are not being punished by God in any way for anything that you have done sister in Christ and I sincerely mean this too!
By God's wisdom and foreknowledge you and he were originally brought together, and please remember also that God also in His foreknowledge and the wisdom that goes along with it, has never given or taken anything from any one of His elect that cannot be managed or handled by us at anytime, or at any juncture in our entire lives, as all things ultimately work for good according to the word of God and through His Spirit concerning the ones who God loves.
And I know by these things for certain, that He will never stop loving you!
Your brother,
Jimmie
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