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To be discussed:

Thread topics you're sick of seeing on repeat.
Is it really beating a dead horse?

Troll vs Genuine Newbie
How do you tell the difference? Where do you draw the line?

And anything else you feel is relevant to "I'm so sick of _____!"

This thread has been done before, all of it. :ahah:


I get you though.. I saw your posts in the other threads and I thank you for saving me the time. I don't know though. It bothers me that new posters are allowed to post threads of their own when clearly, there are troll problems - and have been for years - on this website. It also bothers me that even if they had rules stating you could only post a thread after X amount of posts, there'd still be those stupid post-a-holic threads that allow you to just keep posting nothingness to get your post count up. I guess there's no easy solution, except better/active moderation. I feel bad for the one or two new people who come in here and who are genuinely seeking and new to the site who are automatically assumed to be trolls.
 
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This thread has been done before, all of it. :ahah:


I get you though.. I saw your posts in the other threads and I thank you for saving me the time. I don't know though. It bothers me that new posters are allowed to post threads of their own when clearly, there are troll problems - and have been for years - on this website. It also bothers me that even if they had rules stating you could only post a thread after X amount of posts, there'd still be those stupid post-a-holic threads that allow you to just keep posting nothingness to get your post count up. I guess there's no easy solution, except better/active moderation. I feel bad for the one or two new people who come in here and who are genuinely seeking and new to the site who are automatically assumed to be trolls.

I should have thought that this has been done before.
:doh1: <---Such newbie shame has overtaken me.

I guess the whole, its been done before is applicable even to posts like this then...


It's just like :argh: sometimes and I haven't even been on here that long.

It's got to be difficult for the mods sometimes though.
:zoro: <---How I envision awesome mod power.

From what I've seen of the recruitment drive they seem like they are looking for more. Then there is the task of actually dealing with a troll.

Repeating topics are going to happen because, well it's humanity.
Despite each situation and poster being totally unique there are often factors that just make it feel so familiar. Often also just reaching out for support from the Singles community. Which isn't a bad thing at all.

I think one of the huge things that someone who is new to a forum needs to know is that forums are communities in and of themselves. Yes, they may have a goal or purpose but overall it's a group of people who interact and get to know each other pretty darn well.

Even if it is the internet they need to know that if they walk up to strangers and drop a huge issue into their laps they don't know you or your situation.

:aarh: <---Illustration of how I feel about having a stranger post a totally intimately detailed issue in their life on CF and I have never seen their username before.

They may be able to empathize but many topics brought up on CF are often far more personal than a forum that someone could just drop by to ask a casual question.

We try so hard to love others on this forum and it's a shame to see people come in and try to bust that up. :groupray:
 
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Sure.. it's hard. I think I heard years ago that sometimes regular posters will use sock accounts to ask more intimate questions they may be too embarrassed to talk about openly. I've known people who've done this (so many years ago, inactive posters don't worry ;)).

Re: Trolls. It's sad that several make it bad for the rest, but that's life and that's how it goes sometimes.


Oh. And late welcome to CF. :wave:
 
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Sure.. it's hard. I think I heard years ago that sometimes regular posters will use sock accounts to ask more intimate questions they may be too embarrassed to talk about openly. I've known people who've done this (so many years ago, inactive posters don't worry ;)).

Re: Trolls. It's sad that several make it bad for the rest, but that's life and that's how it goes sometimes.


Oh. And late welcome to CF. :wave:

Thanks for the heads up about sock accounts, I'll keep that tucked away for future reference.

Also, thanks for the welcome, as well as the note about trolls.
 
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lol I feel the same way. I think a lot of people tend to treat the newbies like they're trolls until they do something that somehow in another members eyes makes them okay and non trollish.
I just take them for what they are - a new person. if they turn out to be a troll - fine. If they're in fact an actual human, I haven't already placed judgement on them. lol
 
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My Policy is simple:

I simply accept and try to help the new people. The fruit that they bear tells me alot about them. If they turn out to be a troll I know that it will be taken care of.

if they are a new or struggling Christian, then i will help&pray for them as much as humanly possible. :hug:

If they are a crazy jackwagon like the rest of us, I'll give 'em a cheese & bacon cupcake and invite them to join in the fun. :p
 
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I'm tired of Thunder Peel derailing threads with stupid comments. Who's with me?

I'm also puzzled by people who are clearly in relationships and yet continue to post here. I'm tired of "My boyfriend is the greatest!" or "I'm surrounded by so many beautiful girlfriends!" posts. Mostly because many are posted more as bragging rights and to demean others.
 
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If they are a crazy jackwagon like the rest of us, I'll give 'em a cheese & bacon cupcake and invite them to join in the fun. :p

HEY!! I didn't get my cheese & bacon cupcake. :p

I'm also puzzled by people who are clearly in relationships and yet continue to post here.

I've wondered about this too. :confused:
 
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I think i've been fairly open in the past regarding my feelings towards new poster moderation and how I feel about the general methods used on this forum. I'm all for openness and loveliness but the lack of newbie moderation ... it lets the forum down, personally. There's no shame in having new member posts reviewed prior to posting, there's no shame in preventing them from posting in post-a-holic threads until they've gone through the moderation period. But i've discussed this before, people know i'm all for strict posting moderation until 50 posts+, and i'm beating a dead horse (;)).

The repeating topics ... I wish sometimes people would search, bump and revitalise old threads as a lot of the advice given has been given before, but then we'd never have any threads at all.

I like the cycle, I like going through, reading old threads and going "ah, people are so very similar".

Some people get on my goat, not because of their opinions but the manner they put them forward, but that's my issue. There's an ignore button I could utilise if it bothered me so much, and there's the option of simply not interacting with them.
 
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Thanks for the heads up about sock accounts, I'll keep that tucked away for future reference.

Also, thanks for the welcome, as well as the note about trolls.

Sure thing! Just realize though that these days, regular members use sock accounts to be jerks, not so much for asking personal questions. ^_^

I used a sock account years ago under a different gender for 2 reasons. The project failed and failed miserably. I haven't since logged in.


I'm also puzzled by people who are clearly in relationships and yet continue to post here. I'm tired of "My boyfriend is the greatest!" or "I'm surrounded by so many beautiful girlfriends!" posts. Mostly because many are posted more as bragging rights and to demean others.

I can only think of one person who fits this description and I find this female: tactless, classless and heartless. Or clueless, but I doubt it's that. People who are genuinely happy have a way of conveying their happiness without coming across as a braggart and they do so in a spirit that does not poke at someone who is single.

I love that people who are dating, engaged and married come here - the older regular posters anyway whom I know and love. I don't get that kind of vibe from them either. This place becomes a community and you start getting happy for people who you view as sort of an online family or something. I think that's what VT was getting at earlier.

Anyway... another situation where it's sad that a select few make it bad for the rest because certainly not all non-singles have that type of attitude.


I think i've been fairly open in the past regarding my feelings towards new poster moderation and how I feel about the general methods used on this forum. I'm all for openness and loveliness but the lack of newbie moderation ... it lets the forum down, personally. There's no shame in having new member posts reviewed prior to posting, there's no shame in preventing them from posting in post-a-holic threads until they've gone through the moderation period. But i've discussed this before, people know i'm all for strict posting moderation until 50 posts+, and i'm beating a dead horse (;)).

The repeating topics ... I wish sometimes people would search, bump and revitalise old threads as a lot of the advice given has been given before, but then we'd never have any threads at all.

I like the cycle, I like going through, reading old threads and going "ah, people are so very similar".

Some people get on my goat, not because of their opinions but the manner they put them forward, but that's my issue. There's an ignore button I could utilise if it bothered me so much, and there's the option of simply not interacting with them.

I like you and I like what you have to say. This is all I got for you: :ok:
 
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Troll vs Genuine Newbie
How do you tell the difference? Where do you draw the line?

Honestly, I don't have a good grasp on what makes a troll a troll so I take everyone at face value until they get kicked off or leave. Then maybe I might start thinking "troll"

Lets admit it, lots of regular posters here troll/spam threads. But as they are already accepted into the community, we don't raise hell about it.

Only newbies that post voraciously interest me because those are the only ones that stick around ^_^

I'm also puzzled by people who are clearly in relationships and yet continue to post here. I'm tired of "My boyfriend is the greatest!" or "I'm surrounded by so many beautiful girlfriends!" posts. Mostly because many are posted more as bragging rights and to demean others.

You are still single if you aren't married. There is nothing wrong with being happy in a relationship and sharing that.

I mean, the endless parade of whining about being single is broken up by the occasional "I have the worlds most perfect snuggle bunny XOXOXO" :p

I'm an equal opportunist though :D

I think i've been fairly open in the past regarding my feelings towards new poster moderation and how I feel about the general methods used on this forum. I'm all for openness and loveliness but the lack of newbie moderation ... it lets the forum down, personally. There's no shame in having new member posts reviewed prior to posting, there's no shame in preventing them from posting in post-a-holic threads until they've gone through the moderation period. But i've discussed this before, people know i'm all for strict posting moderation until 50 posts+, and i'm beating a dead horse (;)).

The repeating topics ... I wish sometimes people would search, bump and revitalise old threads as a lot of the advice given has been given before, but then we'd never have any threads at all.

I like the cycle, I like going through, reading old threads and going "ah, people are so very similar".


I think such strict moderation would discourage most newbies from sticking around. But it sounds like a good plan in theory, I for one would love to see this tested.

Old threads are fun. What we really need is a CF Old Thread Revival week. No threads but old ones are allowed. Who's with me?!?!

*chirp chirp chirp*
 
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I think such strict moderation would discourage most newbies from sticking around. But it sounds like a good plan in theory, I for one would love to see this tested.
It would, but the idea soothes my need for order and control. I'd even be up for recoding to allow people to post freely in a newbie specific forum but restricted elsewhere, but that would be unlikely to work here , i'd prefer a major forum reshuffle and general redesign, but that's being done slowly (I think), people are resistant to change, other things I should mention.

Old threads are fun. What we really need is a CF Old Thread Revival week. No threads but old ones are allowed. Who's with me?!?!

*chirp chirp chirp*
Yes.
Thread necromancy is cool people.




Erm.



Hmm.



I like people in relationships posting, it makes my heart warm and fuzzy when not overdone/overmushy. Too much mush and i'm prone to feeling queasy.
 
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It would, but the idea soothes my need for order and control. I'd even be up for recoding to allow people to post freely in a newbie specific forum but restricted elsewhere, but that would be unlikely to work here if, i'd prefer a major forum reshuffle and general redesign, but that's being done slowly (I think), people are resistant to change, other things I should mention.

Why are we just hearing about these amazing ideas now? Shame on you for holding out.
 
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9 What has been, that will be; what has been done, that will be done. Nothing is new under the sun. 10 Even the thing of which we say, "See, this is new!" has already existed in the ages that preceded us.

I wonder what the equivalent of /b/ was in King Solomon's time.
 
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My Policy is simple:

If they are a crazy jackwagon like the rest of us, I'll give 'em a cheese & bacon cupcake and invite them to join in the fun. :p

That cheese and bacon cupcake has been in the mail for a very, very long time. My mailman may have eaten it. Just sayin'. :cool:

Honestly, I don't have a good grasp on what makes a troll a troll so I take everyone at face value until they get kicked off or leave. Then maybe I might start thinking "troll"

Lets admit it, lots of regular posters here troll/spam threads. But as they are already accepted into the community, we don't raise hell about it.

I mean, the endless parade of whining about being single is broken up by the occasional "I have the worlds most perfect snuggle bunny XOXOXO" :p

Old threads are fun. What we really need is a CF Old Thread Revival week. No threads but old ones are allowed. Who's with me?!?!

*chirp chirp chirp*

It takes a long time to recognize a troll, too. If you see someone posting about the same thing over and over and over and/or needlessly attacking others, you know they're living under a bridge somewhere. But a noob with a dozen posts to their name? Too soon to tell.
I LOL'ed at "endless parade of whining about being single," but if someone posted that she had the world's most perfect brownie husband, that would be amazing.
Yes to old threads!
 
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