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Religious people: Did you feel any guilt when you lost your virginity?
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<blockquote data-quote="wannabeadesigirl" data-source="post: 61510911" data-attributes="member: 209130"><p>You still can't. Look at women in Afghanistan covered from head to toe and you can be certain there is still rape there. What's more these women are "blamed" for their rape, even though it's not a sexually promiscuous society. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I did feel guilt and shame when I lost my virginity. It was basically a case of playing doctor gone too far, and because I had it pounded into my brain that being a virgin was the most important thing I could be my guilt was very well understood. </p><p> I never regreted it though. Back then it was "well what's done is done", but now I'm actually glad I did because my first married experience with my husband is not going to be a shock, painful or awkward. </p><p></p><p>One thing I would want to know: If you're in a loving relationship with a good person why the HECK should they be so possessive and awkward about your past experience? I don't understand that kind of infantile thinking, like "You're mine and only mine." You're telling me you are actually jealous about the first awkward (and probably painful) sexual experience your spouse had?! In my opinion someone who holds your loss of hymen or whatever against you isn't worth it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wannabeadesigirl, post: 61510911, member: 209130"] You still can't. Look at women in Afghanistan covered from head to toe and you can be certain there is still rape there. What's more these women are "blamed" for their rape, even though it's not a sexually promiscuous society. I did feel guilt and shame when I lost my virginity. It was basically a case of playing doctor gone too far, and because I had it pounded into my brain that being a virgin was the most important thing I could be my guilt was very well understood. I never regreted it though. Back then it was "well what's done is done", but now I'm actually glad I did because my first married experience with my husband is not going to be a shock, painful or awkward. One thing I would want to know: If you're in a loving relationship with a good person why the HECK should they be so possessive and awkward about your past experience? I don't understand that kind of infantile thinking, like "You're mine and only mine." You're telling me you are actually jealous about the first awkward (and probably painful) sexual experience your spouse had?! In my opinion someone who holds your loss of hymen or whatever against you isn't worth it. [/QUOTE]
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