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Religious people: Did you feel any guilt when you lost your virginity?
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<blockquote data-quote="technofox" data-source="post: 60256262" data-attributes="member: 192118"><p>I had sex before I was saved and have no real regrets. I wanted until I was married after being saved and have regrets, because my former marriage was completely sexless; try being mid-twenty something at the time and only have sex only 8 to 10 times in total of a 2.5 year marriage.</p><p></p><p>For right now I am having premarital sex with few, if any, regrets and still remain in following Christ (meaning I still go to church, pray, read scripture, and believe Jesus is the Son of God). I know some may disagree with me or think this way or that about me; however, one should take into account what I have gone through (an abusive sexless marriage). They should also consider that premarital sex has been debated due to interpretation and translation issues, so I keep an open mind to either side of the debate and leave it to each one's God given conscience, but let's not go there. I am just giving full disclosure. </p><p></p><p>As a guy the biggest pain any woman could do is withhold sex from her husband and not in a biblical way. That happened to me and I can't bear the pain of that happening again, let alone the thought of another divorce :-( So I keep it simple - if I am going to have sex, then it is only going to be in a loving monogamous relationship (i.e. I only have sex in a commited relationship with a woman). </p><p></p><p>The only time I have regreted sex were 1 night stands or non-commited relationships, and those were few and far between (maybe two or three times, four tops dependent how you view it). So with that in mind, I will always recommend going by your own conscience, but I am more in favor of waiting until marriage (ideally, but we are talking reality here) or at least in a committed monogamous relationship. I will never support, nor condone promiscous sex, because I find it repulsive not to mention unbiblical without a doubt.</p><p></p><p>Premarital sex in a committed loving monogamous relationship does not equal promiscous sex, in my opinion for clarification. Also, please take care not to turn this into another debate or jump on the spiritual judgmental train wagon that many have done on prior threads with others whom had sex before marriage. I was married before and know some of whom who do this and had admitted to knocking boots prior to marrying their spouse (just a reminder for those who throw stones), and even those who had not done it, my speck is smaller than your plank <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick Out Tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /></p><p></p><p>Ok now I got that out of the way. Let's see where the little white rabbit leads this thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="technofox, post: 60256262, member: 192118"] I had sex before I was saved and have no real regrets. I wanted until I was married after being saved and have regrets, because my former marriage was completely sexless; try being mid-twenty something at the time and only have sex only 8 to 10 times in total of a 2.5 year marriage. For right now I am having premarital sex with few, if any, regrets and still remain in following Christ (meaning I still go to church, pray, read scripture, and believe Jesus is the Son of God). I know some may disagree with me or think this way or that about me; however, one should take into account what I have gone through (an abusive sexless marriage). They should also consider that premarital sex has been debated due to interpretation and translation issues, so I keep an open mind to either side of the debate and leave it to each one's God given conscience, but let's not go there. I am just giving full disclosure. As a guy the biggest pain any woman could do is withhold sex from her husband and not in a biblical way. That happened to me and I can't bear the pain of that happening again, let alone the thought of another divorce :-( So I keep it simple - if I am going to have sex, then it is only going to be in a loving monogamous relationship (i.e. I only have sex in a commited relationship with a woman). The only time I have regreted sex were 1 night stands or non-commited relationships, and those were few and far between (maybe two or three times, four tops dependent how you view it). So with that in mind, I will always recommend going by your own conscience, but I am more in favor of waiting until marriage (ideally, but we are talking reality here) or at least in a committed monogamous relationship. I will never support, nor condone promiscous sex, because I find it repulsive not to mention unbiblical without a doubt. Premarital sex in a committed loving monogamous relationship does not equal promiscous sex, in my opinion for clarification. Also, please take care not to turn this into another debate or jump on the spiritual judgmental train wagon that many have done on prior threads with others whom had sex before marriage. I was married before and know some of whom who do this and had admitted to knocking boots prior to marrying their spouse (just a reminder for those who throw stones), and even those who had not done it, my speck is smaller than your plank :-P Ok now I got that out of the way. Let's see where the little white rabbit leads this thread. [/QUOTE]
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