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I'm sorry, anewman, but you need to get a grip right now.
I've struggled with dirty stuff for a large portion of my life--just today I looked at something I shouldn't have without really meaning to. I wasn't even really aroused by it, it was just compulsive masturbation. And I cannot boast about a hundred-day record like you. Great job, btw, holding out for that long.
It's painful, I know, and I kmow it's hard for you to get out of the house and do,something else. I myself am stuck at home for long periods of time, and unlike you I waste it all even when I'm not looking at something dirty.
But it will be so much easier if you get rid of that "I failed once, so I have to start over" mindset. All you need to do is pick yourself up again, and you were doing so great before that you do not have to let this phase you.
Sometimes I do have those moments where I hold out for about a week, then I keep looking at stuff once or twice a day. But if you can just manage for those few initial days, you'll be in the clear.
I've struggled with dirty stuff for a large portion of my life--just today I looked at something I shouldn't have without really meaning to. I wasn't even really aroused by it, it was just compulsive masturbation. And I cannot boast about a hundred-day record like you. Great job, btw, holding out for that long.
It's painful, I know, and I kmow it's hard for you to get out of the house and do,something else. I myself am stuck at home for long periods of time, and unlike you I waste it all even when I'm not looking at something dirty.
But it will be so much easier if you get rid of that "I failed once, so I have to start over" mindset. All you need to do is pick yourself up again, and you were doing so great before that you do not have to let this phase you.
Sometimes I do have those moments where I hold out for about a week, then I keep looking at stuff once or twice a day. But if you can just manage for those few initial days, you'll be in the clear.
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