Hi all, I have a moral dilemma. I've been with my girlfriend for six months now, but only became a Christian 3 months ago. Before I came to God, I kissed four other girls while I was in a relationship with my girlfriend, while drunk. She doesn't know about them. I no longer get drunk since becoming Christian, and I've prayed for forgiveness for my sins. I feel absolutely terrible for what I did, as I feel like a completely different person now. The trouble is, I'm afraid to tell her because I don't want to lose her, or even upset her. Our relationship is going so perfectly.
Is kissing other girls while having a girlfriend a sin? Or just morally despicable?
I've learned that God has said adultery is a sin, but does that apply only to marriage, or to lesser relationships like girlfriend / boyfriend too? What does the bible say about cheating on your girlfriend? And is it only sex, or does a kiss count as adultery also?
Have I made myself right with God by asking forgiveness for what I've done, or is telling my girlfriend a requirement in His eyes too?
Is keeping it from her a sin? Or is the guilt I feel simply my conscience?
I know the answer is "tell her" - I just have to pluck up the confidence to do it. Thanks all.
Is kissing other girls while having a girlfriend a sin? Or just morally despicable?
I've learned that God has said adultery is a sin, but does that apply only to marriage, or to lesser relationships like girlfriend / boyfriend too? What does the bible say about cheating on your girlfriend? And is it only sex, or does a kiss count as adultery also?
Have I made myself right with God by asking forgiveness for what I've done, or is telling my girlfriend a requirement in His eyes too?
Is keeping it from her a sin? Or is the guilt I feel simply my conscience?
I know the answer is "tell her" - I just have to pluck up the confidence to do it. Thanks all.
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